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Topic: whats missing or needs fixing?
B_Root's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:12 PM
ive been on here for alil while now and im not getting anything from any one im just curiose to know why. i know im not the greatest looking dude on this site but still am i missing something or do i need to corect something about my self?

Fit2bFunVB's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:16 PM
Have you initiated any contact? If so, are they not responding back? [if they're not, shame on them and you wouldn't want to know any more]

Additionally, I would use spell check when you write to people or post on forums. It gives a much better first impression to read something that doesn't contain any spelling errors. [perhaps it is the "teacher" in me... but, I see this as a common turn off to women]

Hope this helps - and don't give up!

Best of luck,
Peace and Blessings.

polaritybear's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:16 PM
Patience young Padawan.

misstina2's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:17 PM
flowerforyou I can't help but notice that this is your 1st postflowerforyou I would suggest you post more oftenflowerforyou welcomeflowerforyou good luck

moonlight_ride62's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:25 PM

flowerforyou I can't help but notice that this is your 1st postflowerforyou I would suggest you post more oftenflowerforyou welcomeflowerforyou good luck



I agree the forums are a great way to meet...and tons of fun as well

B_Root's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:26 PM
allright i will, and yeah ive contacted pple and 90% dont reply. thank you :smile:

sweetfoxdevil's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:33 PM
Cherish the 10% that do reply.

EXAchilles's photo
Sun 01/11/09 12:34 PM
I think you're missing a couple things in the profile:

1) What are you looking for? It says you want a woman for dating, but give the girls an idea of what you'll do together. Talk about what you find attractive, let them know what you want.

2) Talk about your expectations or dreams for the future. Having plans for the future shows stability and drive, whereas having no plans shows a lack of initiative and a general sense of being lost.

And finally, try the mutual match button or post more on the forums.

Best o' luck,
-D.

B_Root's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:01 PM
thanks every one :wink: ive made some changes do you think maybe i need better or more pics. im a performer like a band member but i dont have any pics right now i guess i should get some?

EXAchilles's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:07 PM

thanks every one :wink: ive made some changes do you think maybe i need better or more pics. im a performer like a band member but i dont have any pics right now i guess i should get some?


More pics are always good, just make sure they're flattering or that you're photogenic.

ianminty2's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:10 PM
forums forums forums
is the same as
yes yes yes
in my eyes

the more you forum the more you get noticed, and the more you attract someone who is physicaly attracted to you, and someone who shares a lot in common with your self.

i might be a lot younger than your self, but the forums are the way forward internet wise

B_Root's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:03 PM
yeah true.

no photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:18 PM
If you have m(.)(.)bs you should show them. Women love m(.)(.)bs love

polaritybear's photo
Sun 01/11/09 04:48 PM

If you have m(.)(.)bs you should show them. Women love m(.)(.)bs love


Mmmmm hairy nipples...drool

B_Root's photo
Sun 01/11/09 05:35 PM
hahaha! yeah then id be kicked off the site for nudity. besides thats not something id want be proud of.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/11/09 05:36 PM
It's that way for most of us.

brokenwings30's photo
Sun 01/11/09 07:09 PM
spend more time in the forums.Most of the poeple I talk to I met posting on the forums

B_Root's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:54 PM
yeah thats a better idea than taking pic of myself half naked. what are the best places to find people?

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 01/12/09 09:00 PM

ive been on here for alil while now and im not getting anything from any one im just curiose to know why. i know im not the greatest looking dude on this site but still am i missing something or do i need to corect something about my self?


The only real thing missing is time. You're 20. You have plenty of that, kid. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: One question to think about though. By profession, you're a fork lift driver. What are you doing to hopefully own that house and make a good living for yourself? It doesn't just happen.

EXAchilles's photo
Mon 01/12/09 09:17 PM

yeah thats a better idea than taking pic of myself half naked. what are the best places to find people?


If you spend your life looking for love it will never come.

It's best to sit back and have a good time and let things come to you.

Remember: a watched pot never blooms.

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