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Topic: Would
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Sun 01/11/09 10:47 AM
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Sun 01/11/09 10:48 AM

just a nice round number and I probably still wouldnt care as long as std test was good and I fealt I could trust her to be honest and faithful

Is being faithful and honest a high probability with numbers upwards of 100 or 200? I mean, practically. Of course, if a couple was polysexual or polyamorous, it wouldn't be an issue - as long as they openly communicated and consented to it over the course of their relationship. Its not my thing. YMMV.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:48 AM
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Sun 01/11/09 10:49 AM

Gosh i feel like crap now! What about someone who changed? What about just a stupid kid once? What do you do now if you want a good girl?

I wouldn't take to heart this subject. We did what we did.
For us, it was conquests, for the woman, they are labeled, sl_ts. I don't label them. Those who wish to feel somewhat superior do.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:49 AM

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If that's the case I can't count that highlaugh laugh

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Sun 01/11/09 10:51 AM
Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Sun 01/11/09 10:51 AM


Gosh i feel like crap now! What about someone who changed? What about just a stupid kid once? What do you do now if you want a good girl?

I wouldn't take to heart this subject. We did what we did.
For us, it was conquests, for the woman, they are labeled, sl_ts. I don't label them. Those who wish to feel somewhat superior do.


I agree. For either men or women. I would venture most people aren't real truthful in their actual numbers anyhow.....laugh

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Sun 01/11/09 10:52 AM


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If that's the case I can't count that highlaugh laugh
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Sun 01/11/09 10:59 AM


Sitting here whistling and looking up..thinking YES,,,we might not comment on mine huh,,,lol,,,lol


Ha, I will comment.

I wouldn't have a problem with. If we are talking over a lifetime and it didn't involve cheating on a spouse or significant other, and if the medical tests came back clean. No worries, I might actually appreciate the experience.
TY,,,flowerforyou Thats my same thoughts also.

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Sun 01/11/09 11:02 AM
people change over time....I know a lady who was anything but a lady 25 years ago...I ran into her by accident and didnt recgonize her at first but her husband was telling me where they met well knowing I lived there for years....I ask her if she knew me and she did and then begged me to keep her secret...They have been married 5 years now and have 3 great kids and she is everybit a lady at all times ...She would once have at least one guy a nite and this went on for years and somewhere somehow she got her head on straight so people do change and 50 or 500 or 5000 can change and can be forgotten and forgiven....I have know married men and women who cheated over and over with the same person 50 or 500 time whats the difference unless you are a virgin and deserve better.........

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Sun 01/11/09 11:07 AM

people change over time....I know a lady who was anything but a lady 25 years ago...I ran into her by accident and didnt recgonize her at first but her husband was telling me where they met well knowing I lived there for years....I ask her if she knew me and she did and then begged me to keep her secret...They have been married 5 years now and have 3 great kids and she is everybit a lady at all times ...She would once have at least one guy a nite and this went on for years and somewhere somehow she got her head on straight so people do change and 50 or 500 or 5000 can change and can be forgotten and forgiven....I have know married men and women who cheated over and over with the same person 50 or 500 time whats the difference unless you are a virgin and deserve better.........

Exactly. The number and the actual act of cheating becomes insignificant at that number because it becomes apparent that it is not about you, but that they have a problem with the addiction or compulsion. Still, it is very dangerous and damaging to themselves and their partners. If someone had willingness and motivation to change and was recovering (because it is a lifelong disease), I might consider....but that consideration would not be a light one by far.

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Sun 01/11/09 11:14 AM
huh

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Sun 01/11/09 11:25 AM

be in a relationship with someone who admitted to being with at least 50 lovers before you?

Relationship or one night stands..Big difference. I mean I know men that have done that I have never know a woman that has before. Well I would be very hesitant to get involved and I would want to know his track record let's say for the last 10 years or so.
Also there would be at least two complete rounds of STD tests done before any body fluids were exchanged.

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Sun 01/11/09 11:25 AM
Edited by angelindarkness on Sun 01/11/09 11:26 AM
huh


Well, its the truth. spock

caamken's photo
Sun 01/11/09 11:35 AM

huh


Well, its the truth. spock
could be don't know much about it

adirtygirl's photo
Sun 01/11/09 11:36 AM
can we all say "PAID FOR BY THE HOUR"


YUCK!!!!noway

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