ive been recently very emotionally troubled by something from my past...although i thought i had gotten over my past relationship i recently heard news about the young lady i found very troubling to me...during the time we were together the lady in question became pregnant and immediately decided she would abort the baby citing that she already had 2 kids and wasnt ready for more...i was crushed and i think it was likely the main factor that lead up to our breakup...after our break up she shipped her 2 kids off to be with thier father and she became a party girl...i recently got the news that she was about to have another baby likely to be born in the past week or so...i was devestated all over again...in my mind i relived our experiences like it all happened just yesterday...i really thought i was over all of this(its been 2 years)...and her life is no longer my concern...im just not sure how to cope with the sadness i feel...not only for myself..but for the children she abandond...im really at a loss

tim, perhaps you'll be able to find some comfort in the fact that she may have wisened up over the years and will now take her role as a mother very seriously.

i'm sorry for your loss (if the child she aborted was yours)

I am so sorry to hear of this. I pray that she has become a stronger person and that not yet another child is left behind

unfortunately i dont think she has developed any better maternal skills...