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Topic: Weight/And Being Asked?
tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:07 PM
Do men or women ask you about your weight?



How do you feel being asked that in cyber?






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Dr. Philsmokin

iceprincess's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:08 PM
I have no issues answering the ?. Do I ask no. I think it's kida rude
and shallow but to each their own i guess.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:08 PM
If I ask the person then I dont mind telling


Otherwise dont ask...dont tell
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I dunno

tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:13 PM
sounds fair.


I think it is a tad rude.

especially if it is the first couple emails.


dunno either

oldsage's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:14 PM
Subject may come up, not being a light weight myself, it has never
really mattered. Each package on it's on.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:15 PM
Yes I have had them ask me-personally I think its rude to ask someone
that.Thats just my opinion. I would never ask someone that
myself.indifferent

iceprincess's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:18 PM
i usually tell them i'm probably lighter than a semi and heavier than a
feather pick a number and i'l tell you if your right,LOL it shuts em up.
After the initial apology i'll tel them my weight and stop conversing if
it's that important to you than i feel you should put in your profile
that you have issues with shallowness.LOL

tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:22 PM
true ice.

eileena9's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:25 PM
As you can tell by the pic there is "more of me to love" but I've had
guys say I'm too heavy for their liking and one guy told me I'm not
heavy enough. Oh well...but as for me asking, no an issue like weight
doesn't matter as long as the guy is respectful and nice.

all4u45's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:29 PM
If every one would post a picture,(not one of a stuffed animal) the
question of weight would not be ask as much...it may be rude to ask,but
I want to know something about a persons looks if they contact me
without a picture

tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:29 PM
eileen thats cool.glasses

CATBW56's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:45 PM
that's a switch eileen a guy saying you weren't heavy enough...I've been
told the same thing..."too heavy", don't date fat woman...oh well their
loss!

As for me I have never asked a persons weight. I just find that to be
rude.

tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:47 PM
ty cat

Zapchaser's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:52 PM
I am 6'2" and 2601b in seaon, 290lb post season. Some women don't like
big guys. some do. Be happy. If you're not happy, then change it. We all
have our tastes but as far as asking or commenting on someone's weight,
no, i think it's very rude.

sassystacey69xx's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:52 PM
i dont mind really...it doent bother me at all!!!if a guy doesnt weant
me for who or what i am...im not interested and his obviously not worrth
it.....

tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:55 PM
Hi sass and zap and ty people.flowerforyou

jeanc200358's photo
Thu 04/19/07 01:55 PM
I don't mind, really, but people oftentimes have a preconceived notion
of what a certain weight or size looks like. There is no "one
weight/size fits all," but some people seem to think there is.

Sanna's photo
Thu 04/19/07 02:02 PM
I think it is rude to ask, but I'm straight about about my wieght. Not
skinny here but a real woman.

Zap ~ I tend to like tall men who are like teddy bears, more to love if
you meet the right one for you! :tongue:

I actually have a hard time dating a man that is lean. Not enough to
hold onto.

tantalizingtulip's photo
Thu 04/19/07 02:08 PM
thumbs up on that sanna

sassystacey69xx's photo
Thu 04/19/07 02:09 PM
sup tantalisin!!!hugss

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