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Topic: Ladies input needed ASAP
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Thu 01/08/09 05:50 PM
I've done that before

"oh crap, I gave my number to her?? I must have been REALLY drunk"

JoeW99's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:53 PM

I've done that before

"oh crap, I gave my number to her?? I must have been REALLY drunk"


Maybe i should of just taken the funny approach.. then the honest one frustrated

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:55 PM


I've done that before

"oh crap, I gave my number to her?? I must have been REALLY drunk"


Maybe i should of just taken the funny approach.. then the honest one frustrated



Honest is good, nothing wrong with what you said... Not everyone is going to agree with how they handle things.. I do the number and no call back sometimes and sometimes I just say "no, I don't think it's a good idea" or that I'm dating someone...

Tromette's photo
Thu 01/08/09 05:56 PM
It's much harder to give out fake numbers now that everyone has cell phones. Because they will be like, "Hey what's your number? I'll call you now so you have mine." A fake number obviously wouldn't ring to your phone right then and you'd look like an asshole.

So yeah, I will usually have the dude call right then so I have his number, and put his name in my phone as "No" or "No way" so I know not to answer when he calls.

Definitely not as fun as the days I used to give out 867-5309.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:02 PM
Pre-plan what you would say in a situation like that. If I don't want to give out my number I say "You seem very nice but I'm afraid I don't give out my phone number to strangers. Maybe we'll run into each other again sometime and will have the opportunity to get to know each other better".

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Thu 01/08/09 06:03 PM

Pre-plan what you would say in a situation like that. If I don't want to give out my number I say "You seem very nice but I'm afraid I don't give out my phone number to strangers. Maybe we'll run into each other again sometime and will have the opportunity to get to know each other better".


Nice classy response.. I like that!!!

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Thu 01/08/09 06:04 PM

Pre-plan what you would say in a situation like that. If I don't want to give out my number I say "You seem very nice but I'm afraid I don't give out my phone number to strangers. Maybe we'll run into each other again sometime and will have the opportunity to get to know each other better".


Good idea. Last thing I want to do is give out my number to someone I don't actually want to hear from again. There are polite ways to get around it such as what you've suggested.

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Thu 01/08/09 06:08 PM
I just say "Sorry, I only give my number to pretty girls"

_Amanda_'s photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:12 PM

I just say "Sorry, I only give my number to pretty girls"


that just might get you smacked in the face rofl


I try twice. If they don't respond back, tough sh!t, their loss.

JoeW99's photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:14 PM

I just say "Sorry, I only give my number to pretty girls"



That's a YouTube video waiting to happen, let me know how it goes... might try it!


Tromette's photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:14 PM
I try once. Because once is enough.

Southernborn29's photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:25 PM
i mean i still think a reply back saying im not intrested is called for here.They are being nice still but not driveing you crazy by saying nothing at all.I agree to take this one on the chin but it really does suck to feel amazing after getting a number and feeling the rush.Only later to get tore down that ur not my type.Avoidance is total disrespect in my book and we all outta have the backbone, to say hey im too shallow to speak to you if thats how it is!

Jill298's photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:25 PM
I'm woman enough to say "No, I don't want to give out my number" I don't play little kid games. I've had this done to me, and other petty little highschool games. If I like you, it means I actually like you. If I don't, I'm not rude about it, I just say I'm not interested. I think that's far less rude than leading them on, giving out my number then never calling back.

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Thu 01/08/09 06:26 PM

i mean i still think a reply back saying im not intrested is called for here.They are being nice still but not driveing you crazy by saying nothing at all.I agree to take this one on the chin but it really does suck to feel amazing after getting a number and feeling the rush.Only later to get tore down that ur not my type.Avoidance is total disrespect in my book and we all outta have the backbone, to say hey im too shallow to speak to you if thats how it is!
Well look at it this way, if she doesn't call you back you know she's not your type without having to take her out and put in effort into it.

Southernborn29's photo
Thu 01/08/09 06:30 PM
agreed totally but damn i always at least talk to a person at least once before decideing.I mean my god the phone call is not a curse,and how will you know what someones about if you never give them lead way.Alotta people are single not b/c their arent good people out here just that we have such a high bar and no room for comprimise....Everyone deserves a chance,b/c even myself have been shocked by women who at first wherent my ideal

MsCarmen's photo
Thu 01/08/09 07:43 PM
Maybe she is recovering from her hang-over and really isn't in the mood to talk to you or anyone else?

Jill298's photo
Thu 01/08/09 07:45 PM
Why are so upset about not talking to a girl you don't even know??

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 01/10/09 06:17 AM
Well, it's been a few days... did you ever hear from her?

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Sat 01/10/09 02:49 PM

Well, it's been a few days... did you ever hear from her?


I'm guessing ......NO!

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Sat 01/10/09 02:54 PM
just call her till you hear the cops at your door..women love presistence

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