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Maybe the guy she went home with is using it
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Some people don't know how to gracefully say no when asked for their number. We weren't there so we can't judge her motive. If you have left a voicemail I would wait for her to return your call. If she doesn't, she's not interested. This. Have given out my number and not responded later to people. Why? Why be rude to someones face? Let them have their moment, if i'm truely interest i'll pick up when they call or text back. As far as having no game usally 1 or 2 days later its a text. Reply or i don't bother wasting the time to call. No point stressing over who likes you and doesn't. You made the move, got the number, texted her.. balls in her court. If she doesn't play, move on. Yeah....what he said!! Not trying to be a D!CK, but better for you in the end. edit: sorry had to find another way to type D!ck  |
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I would think she was at work during the day and maybe waiting to get home and talk to you in the privacy of her own space.
If the text you sent was she made a good impression or not anything too stupid I would just sit tight for 24 hours and then maybe send one more polite message. Either she answers or doesn't. Don't bother after the second call. I was always told it was good manners to return personal calls before 8pm.and with in 24 hours. If she was really partying I wouldn't put a lot of stock in the fact that she gave you a phone mumber. With cell phones it is really easy to just ignore someone you got rid of by giving a phone number. Asking for a phone number in a bar is not a big compliment. |
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Maybe she couldn't come up with a fake number quickly enough.
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Have given out my number and not responded later to people. Why? Why be rude to someones face? Let them have their moment, if i'm truely interest i'll pick up when they call or text back. So, you give out your number even when you know you're not going to answer when they call? |
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Have given out my number and not responded later to people. Why? Why be rude to someones face? Let them have their moment, if i'm truely interest i'll pick up when they call or text back. So, you give out your number even when you know you're not going to answer when they call? Hmmm be honest or lie? Yes. Ever told a person no when they asked for your number? It's one thing to tell a guy, but a girl? Yeah, i'm not going to be the one to crush someone self esteem in public. Later when i don't call back least it's in privite.. and their choice if they want to share that with other people. Like i said "you can call me a D!ck" but i have my reasons for not wanting to tear down a person infront of their friends. Lesser of two evils? |
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She could be busy... she's not sitting at home waiting for you to call. If you call her, leave a message which you did. Now it's up to her. If she calls you back great, if not then move on. It does happen alot. Guys do it too. I've gotten numbers and when I called them they never called me back. I don't know why people do that but they do. If you keep calling her, I promise you'll freak her out and you will never again have a chance with her. (((Jill))) Jill and Tulsa are correct.. You've sent a text, you've called and left a message, now leave it up to her. |
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You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense.
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You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense. It's human nature to avoid uncomfortable conversations or situations. This is not not that unusual. |
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I see where he's coming from Sweet... They'd feel bad either way, Joe is saying he thinks it's better if they feel bad on their own instead of in public...
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You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense. Least it's not in public. Like i said lesser of two evils. Worse later? Trust me much better then being told no in front of her friends. You wanted an honest answer and that is what i gave you, sorry you disagree. |
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I see where he's coming from Sweet... They'd feel bad either way, Joe is saying he thinks it's better if they feel bad on their own instead of in public... Yeah, I guess. Though, I'd rather someone just be honest and upfront in the beginning. |
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You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense. Least it's not in public. Like i said lesser of two evils. Worse later? Trust me much better then being told no in front of her friends. You wanted an honest answer and that is what i gave you, sorry you disagree. Yes, I wanted an honest answer. No, I don't agree, however there's no need for you to apologize for me not agreeing. I just like people to be honest up front. You're not... but that's your decision. 
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I see where he's coming from Sweet... They'd feel bad either way, Joe is saying he thinks it's better if they feel bad on their own instead of in public... Yeah, I guess. Though, I'd rather someone just be honest and upfront in the beginning. some women don't.. they might throw a drink in his face or get all her girlfriends to do something not nice, it just depends on the person and how they handle rejection... |
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Edited by
JoeW99
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Thu 01/08/09 05:46 PM
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You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense. It's human nature to avoid uncomfortable conversations or situations. This is not not that unusual. Confrontation isn't a issue for me, beating down a girls ego in public is. If confrontation or uncomfortable conversations were an issue for me.. i would of just lied to Sweet. |
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yeah well shes not responsive so i will take the hint thanks for the advice.It still sucks anytime you get rejected but to give a person false hope is even worse.Thing is she wasnt drinking when we started talking and she approached me going in the door.Last night she did reply to txt "i should add" only to say "who is this" to my txt ...lol After i explained who i was no reply back was heard ,which should be obvious.Except she was flirting even before the drinking began.
I mean id rather she just drop a txt and be rude than dodge me and say nothing.It leaves too much room for error that txt didnt go through or she was busy...A good rule is be straight up,honest and screw making a person mad...At least they know and u didnt lead them on..- |
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I see where he's coming from Sweet... They'd feel bad either way, Joe is saying he thinks it's better if they feel bad on their own instead of in public... Yeah, I guess. Though, I'd rather someone just be honest and upfront in the beginning. Yep, there are polite ways to tell someone you aren't interested. Or at the very least, if you did give out your number and they tried to contact you, at least be polite and text them back and tell them you changed your mind or something. |
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You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense. Least it's not in public. Like i said lesser of two evils. Worse later? Trust me much better then being told no in front of her friends. You wanted an honest answer and that is what i gave you, sorry you disagree. I'm sorry but getting turned down in public and crushing someone's self esteem is not nearly the same thing... yelling loudly in public the reasons why you are refusing the person would crush them..saying no hun it isn't going where you want it too, is not hurtful its respectful...its more hurtful to get their hopes up....not only were they not worth your call back you knew it when you gave them the number and they weren't even worth the truth of that |
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If you sent a text, and called her and didn't hear back yet, she's not into you. Hopefully that's all you did, or you'll look like a weirdo.
I saw a suggestion saying to send her your myspace link or mingle2 ID. That is the worst idea EVER. Not only nerdy as all hell, but sending someone you met in real life your online dating profile is really one of the most hilarious things I've ever heard of doing. Just don't do it. |
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i feel you mirror the crazy thing is if she wasnt into me then why give me her real number??? She was drunk, it happens! I have like 20 dudes numbers in my phone. |
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