I recently moved out to lancaster pa...and to make it a short story i'd say 50%of the guys i have met to date have been married or have gfs, obviously im not okay with this...especially not when ur sitting in a restaurant and the wife calls my phone to ask if i can send her husband home...my last b/f just came over yesterday to "talk" and see if we could get back together..i actually considered it until my phone rang and his "sister" asked me if i'd seen him that his cell isnt working...he doesnt have a sister and his cell was fine:( What is it out here?

Hes a wannabe playa

yea he is and i'm glad i found out although we were together a while lol...but its been alot of guys..is it lancaster or the online thing or ? I lived in a suburb of philly b4 and never had this haappen...although it makes for interesting stories it sux ...

I'm sorry about your experiences....

Stay in the forums here you will find guys are no good anyway

thank you...i just wish i could understand why so many do that...and also how the gf's/wives get my numbers guess guys aren't so slick out here? :P

girl it happens too all of us some more hten others but life goes on... i feeel like giving up on guys sometimes hten again... ill just talk oto them.. and just be more carefull next time..we cnat shut down forever i know its hard becasue you probablly feel betrayed heck i didi not anymore.. i had met a guy thru one of my best firneds.. and we were doign great we were sopossed too spend christmas nad new years together.. but on hte 15 of december was the last i heard of him.. same day my best friend stopped talkign to me and then i tried writng him messzges on my space i checked he read but no response but 3 days ago i found out i had too stop caring i was getting messages from frineds saying who he was becasue i was his number on my space ..iam like he was my guy then one of them asked of me and hte guy completlly denied me ... seee iam iam still offf and going there plenty of fish in the sea...that and dont let a call pus hu away invistaget before oyu act next time..

sorry for long story just was trying too prove a point

How are these wives and girlfriends and "sisters" getting YOUR cell number?????

Ouch ...Yes, you will find bastards out there. That's why I stay here in the forums so they won't get me ....

It happened to me once too..they look at his phone calls

Those are really moronic cheaters!!!!!!!

naw its because they don't care...

Ever girl I've been with...as broken up with me. The last girl I was with broke up with me less then a month ago. I don't even know why..she didn't give me any explaination yet. I am pretty sure..I didn't do anything wrong. I was honest about everything..I live in a small town, and I don't drive. So it's kind of harder for me to meet girls...I have been very depressed.

I think the majority of the time this happens, they just aren't feeling the right connection..and they don't know how to express that, call it cowardice or the misconception that the lack of connection is mutual who knows

maybe your tooooo tooo nice... girls get bored sometimes of that too much niceness

I found out today, that she was seeing someone else whi9le see was going out with me. That means all bets are off. I don't even want to be her friend. I haven't talked to that um you know, in over three months. I don't care to talk to her see her either. Maybe I should just give up.

It's ok to take time off. Dont' give up, you are too young.