Topic: Friends benefits...
wshv1452008's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:05 PM
I have been looking for a relationship for a while now, and i have my own ideas about this. but what is wrong with friends with benefits? That's not what i'm wanting but that is one of the first things i hear when i start talking to girls. what is so bad about it?

misstina2's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:08 PM
Edited by misstina2 on Wed 01/07/09 07:19 PM
nothings bad about it as long as both people know what they are getting into.It's not my thing I'm wanting something that hopefully will last and I can let my emotions get involved:heart:

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:08 PM
It's not for everyone, that's all.

FallinAngel82's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:09 PM
i gave up on friends with benifits when i started falling for the guy and he married my sister

wshv1452008's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:09 PM
see that's what i am looking for, just some different point of views...

misstina2's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:11 PM

see that's what i am looking for, just some different point of views...
you'll find plenty point of views on hereflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:17 PM

nothings bad about it as long as both people know what they are getting into.It's not my thing I wanting something that hopefully will last and I can let my emotions get involved:heart:
bigsmile trueflowerforyou

Winx's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:23 PM
I've noticed that one of the people ends up liking the other person more then the other person likes them.

And then somebody gets hurt.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:27 PM
Because each person comes with their own set of feelings and nothing is ever in balance FWBs usually end sour for at least one.

As long as the understanding stays the same the whole time that nothing more than FWBs will ever come out of it, it can last a while but once one of the two gets serious and the other is not, bad bad bad.

FallinAngel82's photo
Wed 01/07/09 07:29 PM
sad part is now, the guy i was fwb with that married my sister is telling me he made a mistake and misses me and that he loves me

to bad for him im not anyone's second choice and i'd never do that to my sister

sillygirley's photo
Thu 01/08/09 01:24 AM
Edited by sillygirley on Thu 01/08/09 01:25 AM

sad part is now, the guy i was fwb with that married my sister is telling me he made a mistake and misses me and that he loves me

to bad for him im not anyone's second choice and i'd never do that to my sister

absolutely!!you go girl... man though your poor sister, did she know about your guy's arrangement?

JoeW99's photo
Thu 01/08/09 01:26 AM

I have been looking for a relationship for a while now, and i have my own ideas about this. but what is wrong with friends with benefits? That's not what i'm wanting but that is one of the first things i hear when i start talking to girls. what is so bad about it?



Never been in one that didn't end up someone liking someone..

Easier to just date other people and have random sex in my opinion. Emotions are a B@tch sometimes.