Topic: What's wrong with my profile?
ryc43's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:37 PM
What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:39 PM

What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?
smitten It turns me ondrool

willaxtman's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:39 PM
dont know what to tell ya man. im signed up on at least four diffrent sites and havent had much luck on any of them.

Mentork's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:40 PM
You profile's fine...

I didn't get any hits until i started posting on the forums...

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:43 PM
love is a screwed up game very few win..when the chips are low it is hard to take yet another gamble..

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:45 PM

love is a screwed up game very few win..when the chips are low it is hard to take yet another gamble..
drinker so truedrinker

Winx's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:46 PM

What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?


I'll be honest.

Your profile says, "I have sent alot of emails, and most with no answer."

I would delete that. It sounds like you think negatively of yourself.

I would also check spelling again.

I'm not a big fan of no shirt pics. I've seen other women on here say the same thing.

Good luck.flowerforyou

FedGuyB16's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:48 PM
Just MWO, but I'd lose the shirtless picture (kinda scary) and the one to the left of it (uhhhh, just not a good picture). Other than that, what you wrote looks good. Good luck.


no photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:50 PM

What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?
the holiday season is over nobody wants a date right now. but hang in there. valentines day is around the corner you may get some attention.drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:57 PM


What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?


I'll be honest.

Your profile says, "I have sent alot of emails, and most with no answer."

I would delete that. It sounds like you think negatively of yourself.

I would also check spelling again.

I'm not a big fan of no shirt pics. I've seen other women on here say the same thing.

Good luck.flowerforyou


:banana: Well said:banana:

Winx's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:58 PM



What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?


I'll be honest.

Your profile says, "I have sent alot of emails, and most with no answer."

I would delete that. It sounds like you think negatively of yourself.

I would also check spelling again.

I'm not a big fan of no shirt pics. I've seen other women on here say the same thing.

Good luck.flowerforyou


:banana: Well said:banana:


Why, thank you, dahling.happy flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/06/09 07:04 PM




What's wrong with my profile? I have been on here for awhile now, and have not had any luck. Is it my looks, or is it my profile its self?


I'll be honest.

Your profile says, "I have sent alot of emails, and most with no answer."

I would delete that. It sounds like you think negatively of yourself.

I would also check spelling again.

I'm not a big fan of no shirt pics. I've seen other women on here say the same thing.

Good luck.flowerforyou


:banana: Well said:banana:


Why, thank you, dahling.happy flowerforyou




bigsmile Your welcome sweetheart:heart:

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 07:23 PM
Change the name of the town you live in
Moody..?????

IDK, sounds like maybe you are too.....just saying.

Maybe the next largest town??

njmom05's photo
Tue 01/06/09 07:26 PM
Unfortunately, it just takes time. I've been here almost 2 years and only met a couple people. So either I'm a complete loser or I just haven't met the right one yet.

I do agree, women aren't impressed with shirtless pics.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/06/09 07:50 PM

Unfortunately, it just takes time. I've been here almost 2 years and only met a couple people. So either I'm a complete loser or I just haven't met the right one yet.

I do agree, women aren't impressed with shirtless pics.
flowerforyou Very enlighteningbigsmile

ryc43's photo
Tue 01/06/09 08:24 PM
Thank you. I will try that.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 01/06/09 08:24 PM
I don't think your looks are a big issue. Maybe your height and that you are a smoker.

Your photos are not bad but they aren't really engageing. Very stiff, no smile, lot of glare. You make yourself appear heavier cutting off your shots at chest line. None of your pictures show and interest that you could share with a woman. How many times do men have to be told no shirt no response. Even if you are not that up tight about a guy nude it just seems lame on a profile. Unless you are trying to appeal to both sexes.

You spelling needs multiple corrections. That is fine typing fast in forums or even longer e-mails but on profiles and maybe initial e-mails you want to make the special effort to spell check.

I don't know what vibe most women would get from your romantic scenario but it would make me want to back off from a guy who lives in a remote area and is very solitary as a potential person to date. That you repeat your interests makes your text seem subtley boreing. Your basic stats state you are divorced no need to repeat a negative.

This isn't a really bad profile it just doesn't connect. Sad because asking at least shows that you are hoping to learn how you present and that is a good thing. Good luck. Don't give up. Post in the forums. Lot of people do read them and it defintely ups the number of people who see you.


njmom05's photo
Wed 01/07/09 11:46 AM


Unfortunately, it just takes time. I've been here almost 2 years and only met a couple people. So either I'm a complete loser or I just haven't met the right one yet.

I do agree, women aren't impressed with shirtless pics.
flowerforyou Very enlighteningbigsmile

Which part, that I'm a loser or the shirtless pics??
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lilith401's photo
Wed 01/07/09 12:00 PM
Spelling is really bad and it sounds desperate. You've gotten some great feedback here. Just remember, your profile is your chance to showcase you, who you are. Not what you don't have or want.