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but i'm just afraid that i won't find a decent guy or hell "man" to love both my child and i because lets face it, if you don't love my little girl you can forget about me because she will always come first and i want the best for her and her not having a daddy in her life is just not fair! but most of the guys my age, 19. are still in there prime and want to party. i chose to party earlier on in my life and now i've matured a lot faster then most girls my age. but i guess everything happens in mysterious ways and maybe just maybe mr. right will show up someday. if not i'll have to play both roles for my daughter, mommy and daddy.
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You can always refer back to the advice in your "single mom" thread...
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Most likely you will have to wait, but I can tell you from experience that it isn't so bad. I mean, you get to enjoy your daughter all to yourself.
And when the right guy finally does come along, trust me, it will be worth the wait! And until that time, you'll do just fine being Mommy and Daddy to your little girl! 
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So...waiting for Mr Right...hmmm...is that a major priority for you??? I would be more focused on raising your daughter right now on your own...a "daddy" for her shouldn't be your main concern
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i know a guy. he would be my dad, he is 44 works hard, and he has me an my sister who is 9. me an him built some houses this summer, an the house we live in now we spent 8 years building. there is a photo of me n him on my pics gallery he is on the right. he is looking 2 build a relaitionship. not real sure u care but i seen this an figured i would type.
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need me to follow you with the violin ?
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need me to follow you with the violin ? no thats alright 
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Your profile states you have no children.
18 is still a child. You might be lock to find 1 in 1,000,000, young men around your age who would be willing to take on another mans child. Most will want only the mother. From my own experience, I had custody, the kids would have been better off, had I raised them alone instead of dragging home women who, after a while, left. It's easy enough to get a sitter or family member to care for the kids so you can enjoy male company, once in a while. I would just be cautious about who I allow next to my kids. |
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but i'm just afraid that i won't find a decent guy or hell "man" to love both my child and i because lets face it, if you don't love my little girl you can forget about me because she will always come first and i want the best for her and her not having a daddy in her life is just not fair! but most of the guys my age, 19. are still in there prime and want to party. i chose to party earlier on in my life and now i've matured a lot faster then most girls my age. but i guess everything happens in mysterious ways and maybe just maybe mr. right will show up someday. if not i'll have to play both roles for my daughter, mommy and daddy. Why r u afraid?? wat r u afraid of? At the moment, im sure ur doing a great job bringing up ur kid, why do u need man?? IF...u r ready to share ur life, dont concentrate it in regards to the fact they must love ur child first.....they shouldnt, it might end up being summit sinister like pedophilia...they should love YOU, and ACCEPT that u r a package...love would grow, it wouldnt be instant tho.It would be unrealistic to think they would love ur child as much as urself. Usually, when u r confident and building on ur own achievements, u r more emotionally ready for a partner in life. |
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Your profile states you have no children. 18 is still a child. You might be lock to find 1 in 1,000,000, young men around your age who would be willing to take on another mans child. Most will want only the mother. From my own experience, I had custody, the kids would have been better off, had I raised them alone instead of dragging home women who, after a while, left. It's easy enough to get a sitter or family member to care for the kids so you can enjoy male company, once in a while. I would just be cautious about who I allow next to my kids. i turn 19 on the 13th. tthanks : ) age makes no difference, well maybe to an extent but at the end of the day its about the love you give that child and pink lady, i haven't had my little girl yet, shes due on valentines day |
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I can't even believe that someone your age would be worried about anything other than what to wear tomorrow. If you are truly worried about that now....I don't want to be around if you're still looking and 35. It'll be a nightmare.....
Maybe I missed something.....your profile says your 18 and have no children. Are you just a little late updating your profile or is this a new development? |
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but i'm just afraid that i won't find a decent guy or hell "man" to love both my child and i because lets face it, if you don't love my little girl you can forget about me because she will always come first and i want the best for her and her not having a daddy in her life is just not fair! but most of the guys my age, 19. are still in there prime and want to party. i chose to party earlier on in my life and now i've matured a lot faster then most girls my age. but i guess everything happens in mysterious ways and maybe just maybe mr. right will show up someday. if not i'll have to play both roles for my daughter, mommy and daddy. Enjoy being a Mom for awhile. I wouldn't worry about dating right now, but it is refreshing that you are already standing your ground that a man will have to accept both you and your child, and love you both. |
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 im a mom, a young mom at that... and i have no prob getting dates... but "that one" is yet to come along... and maybe thats a good thing.. my son is awesome i almost dont wanna ever share him
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I can't even believe that someone your age would be worried about anything other than what to wear tomorrow. If you are truly worried about that now....I don't want to be around if you're still looking and 35. It'll be a nightmare..... Maybe I missed something.....your profile says your 18 and have no children. Are you just a little late updating your profile or is this a new development? no theres reasons behind as to why it says i have no children. |
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Edited by
Pink_lady
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Tue 01/06/09 01:03 PM
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and pink lady, i haven't had my little girl yet, shes due on valentines day
Ok, so whether shes here or not, why r u worried about havin a guy? wat difference will a partner make in ur life? r u afraid ur not able to cope on ur own? cos believe me, when ur a parent, u DO cope, whether u like it or not! Ur at a time in ur life when one thing is taking priority, and thats having ur child and spendin time with them...a relationship should be bottom of that list. Stop worryin about stupid crap, and enjoy parenthood. |
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but i'm just afraid that i won't find a decent guy or hell "man" to love both my child and i because lets face it, if you don't love my little girl you can forget about me because she will always come first and i want the best for her and her not having a daddy in her life is just not fair! but most of the guys my age, 19. are still in there prime and want to party. i chose to party earlier on in my life and now i've matured a lot faster then most girls my age. but i guess everything happens in mysterious ways and maybe just maybe mr. right will show up someday. if not i'll have to play both roles for my daughter, mommy and daddy. Two words... "older man". Find a good dude around 40 to love you, and he will love your child too. |
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need me to follow you with the violin ? you can follow me anywhere 
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you can follow me anywhere
im on it 
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