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Topic: Is the whole world married??
Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:49 PM
nantucket? what what

directandwrite's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:49 PM


Not to break open another can of worms in this topic (because everytime someone mentions this it gets into its own topic somewhere else) but I just want to know where all the good and decent guys are...gentlemen, sense of humor, honest, not into head games...etc...where are they all at???huh

They're married perhaps???:banana: :banana: :banana:



Damn! That starts us all back at square one then doesn't it? ALonelyPoet...must repost immediately!!! :angry:

ALonelyPoet's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:50 PM



Truth is, most of us feel like lonely singles who will never find a good person to be with. We're all out here trying to play the game too...we all feel that way, we just all aren't saying it, you know? waving


I don't think it's a game and I don't play like it is. They say it's not the destination, but the journey that's important? Not really, not in this case.... I suppose the difference is the terrain.scared


I just meant game in the fact of game of love...not that we all play headgames here or something. I think we're all wanting to find the real deal of love out there...most of us just aren't sure it can be found or even if it's out there for us. That was what I meant.


well it just keeps getting increasingly difficult to believe anyone can love me.... don't get me wrong, i know i have a defeatist attitude but by discussing it i'm trying to change it.... you see my dad never claimed me, i was my mother's servant and only 2 girls have ever been interested in me, only to use my vulnerability. On top of it all, I've been on my own since i was 14 and never had anyone to teach me anything i needed to know.... it's like i'm stumbling around in the dark of a room filled with dangerous obstacles Abandoned, and betrayed... what kind of attitude would you expect me to have.

directandwrite's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:50 PM

nantucket? what what


could be...now how do we get there? lol

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Tue 01/06/09 12:53 PM


Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?

ALonelyPoet's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:54 PM



Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?


i did say "IN HOPES"

directandwrite's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:56 PM








well it just keeps getting increasingly difficult to believe anyone can love me.... don't get me wrong, i know i have a defeatist attitude but by discussing it i'm trying to change it.... you see my dad never claimed me, i was my mother's servant and only 2 girls have ever been interested in me, only to use my vulnerability. On top of it all, I've been on my own since i was 14 and never had anyone to teach me anything i needed to know.... it's like i'm stumbling around in the dark of a room filled with dangerous obstacles Abandoned, and betrayed... what kind of attitude would you expect me to have.


Being honest and fun, and just yourself are the keys to happiness...with someone. Now I wonder if I will find it too...but you just can't get down on yourself about how bad past experiences have been. You just can't. Because nobody wants someone they are always having to console when they are down. So take whatever time is necessary to feel sad or bad and get back out on the dance floor...life is waiting for you...and so is the awesome girl you have been looking for! ;o)

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:57 PM



Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?




laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/06/09 12:58 PM

nantucket? what what



There once was a man from Natucket................

Seakolony's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:00 PM


nantucket? what what


There once was a man from Natucket................


Hey dice man wasssup, oops, sorry that patsfan, my bad

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:02 PM




Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?


i did say "IN HOPES"


Have you ever seen a woman walk out of the ladies room somewhere with her pants around her ankles? :tongue:

ALonelyPoet's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:02 PM









well it just keeps getting increasingly difficult to believe anyone can love me.... don't get me wrong, i know i have a defeatist attitude but by discussing it i'm trying to change it.... you see my dad never claimed me, i was my mother's servant and only 2 girls have ever been interested in me, only to use my vulnerability. On top of it all, I've been on my own since i was 14 and never had anyone to teach me anything i needed to know.... it's like i'm stumbling around in the dark of a room filled with dangerous obstacles Abandoned, and betrayed... what kind of attitude would you expect me to have.


Being honest and fun, and just yourself are the keys to happiness...with someone. Now I wonder if I will find it too...but you just can't get down on yourself about how bad past experiences have been. You just can't. Because nobody wants someone they are always having to console when they are down. So take whatever time is necessary to feel sad or bad and get back out on the dance floor...life is waiting for you...and so is the awesome girl you have been looking for! ;o)


point made and taken... thank yousmitten

ALonelyPoet's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:04 PM





Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?


i did say "IN HOPES"


Have you ever seen a woman walk out of the ladies room somewhere with her pants around her ankles? :tongue:


In a panic from the guy thats already in there! lol

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:04 PM



nantucket? what what


There once was a man from Natucket................


Hey dice man wasssup, oops, sorry that patsfan, my bad




:smile:

directandwrite's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:04 PM













Being honest and fun, and just yourself are the keys to happiness...with someone. Now I wonder if I will find it too...but you just can't get down on yourself about how bad past experiences have been. You just can't. Because nobody wants someone they are always having to console when they are down. So take whatever time is necessary to feel sad or bad and get back out on the dance floor...life is waiting for you...and so is the awesome girl you have been looking for! ;o)


point made and taken... thank yousmitten


You are very welcome...we are a pretty loving bunch on here for the most part! smitten :wink:

no photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:06 PM
it sucks... im currently married... i didnt wanna be another statistic i truly tried everything to stay married i actually like being married but the marriage was impossible so hopefully someday soon i can file divorce i was hoping hed do it and pay for it

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:08 PM

it sucks... im currently married... i didnt wanna be another statistic i truly tried everything to stay married i actually like being married but the marriage was impossible so hopefully someday soon i can file divorce i was hoping hed do it and pay for it



Are you seperated at least

directandwrite's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:10 PM






Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?


i did say "IN HOPES"


Have you ever seen a woman walk out of the ladies room somewhere with her pants around her ankles? :tongue:


In a panic from the guy thats already in there! lol


Yikes...Steps out of the room for a moment...comes back in later, laughing...

ALonelyPoet's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:32 PM







Outside of a ladies bathroom

why? in hopes of catching them with their pants down?... get real!


Wouldn't you have to be in the ladies room to do that?


i did say "IN HOPES"


Have you ever seen a woman walk out of the ladies room somewhere with her pants around her ankles? :tongue:


In a panic from the guy thats already in there! lol


Yikes...Steps out of the room for a moment...comes back in later, laughing...


hey I just met a girl who seems to be interested and will call me later when she gets off work... I'm not really sure what to talk about.... Ideas???

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