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Topic: okay its been a few days now and reality sets in
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Mon 01/05/09 06:18 AM

It was fun at first, a litlle flattering at times, but now what? how about you guys/gals? did the luster of this site dim quickly or is it still shining bright?


I think there was a shift in my mindset once I understood the realities.

The site definitely "shines bright" -- brighter than any other I've tried, and I've tried a lot of them -- because of the people I've come to know here.

It took me awhile, though, to figure out that the kind of person I'm looking for, in "relationship" terms, just doesn't seem to use dating sites. I have no idea why that is, but it definitely appears to be the case.



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Mon 01/05/09 06:20 AM
I adore you, Sexy Lexy Lexicon....smitten

He is a perfect example of why this site is wonderful.

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Mon 01/05/09 06:31 AM

I adore you, Sexy Lexy Lexicon....smitten

He is a perfect example of why this site is wonderful.


And THAT'S why I'm still here!

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Mon 01/05/09 06:32 AM
Oh ya.... if I was childless and you watched Americal Idol, we'd be living in sin....smooched :laughing:

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Mon 01/05/09 06:59 AM

well sweetheart i never said i wasnt dysfunctional thats why i asked the question to find how much.... not trying to offend or say i got something better to do lol i have no life just wondering if im gonna get what im looking for?


our lives are what we make `em,..

if we don`t put 'it' out there,.why are we disappointed we don`t get nothing back,..

open your eyes,..your world is a reflection of who you are,..do you like what you see,..if not,.you`re the only one who can change that,.. drinker


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Mon 01/05/09 07:02 AM

Oh ya.... if I was childless and you watched Americal Idol, we'd be living in sin....smooched :laughing:


American Idol? -- OK, THAT'S pushing the envelope a bit....!

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Mon 01/05/09 07:03 AM


Oh ya.... if I was childless and you watched Americal Idol, we'd be living in sin....smooched :laughing:


American Idol? -- OK, THAT'S pushing the envelope a bit....!

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I dont know about anyone else but I like the initial "try out" period for American Idol and then I steadily lose interest once its narrowed down to the actual contestants. laugh

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Mon 01/05/09 01:16 PM


It was fun at first, a litlle flattering at times, but now what? how about you guys/gals? did the luster of this site dim quickly or is it still shining bright?


I think there was a shift in my mindset once I understood the realities.

The site definitely "shines bright" -- brighter than any other I've tried, and I've tried a lot of them -- because of the people I've come to know here.

It took me awhile, though, to figure out that the kind of person I'm looking for, in "relationship" terms, just doesn't seem to use dating sites. I have no idea why that is, but it definitely appears to be the case.





I agree with your last paragraph.

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