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Topic: I just got home!
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Sun 01/04/09 04:23 PM
so like I was saying in my other post yesterday, I had finally decided to meet with this guy, despite my nervousness and lack of confidence.

Well, we met up today. It wasn't as awkward as I thought it was gonna be, it actually went pretty well (i think)...He came to my place to pick me up (getting into a stranger's car was a little be scary though lol) and then we went to grab some lunch...after that, we went to watch a movie and he drove me back. I was really worried about the saying goodbye part..like..I am not sure what I am supposed to do...so we hugged and said bye..he said he'll call me and that we should hang out again.

It is too early to tell if there is any "sparks" but i definitely feel really comfortable with him, as least on a friends level...

I'm glad i decided to meet up with him and thanks to all of those who gave me support and advice on here!!!

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Sun 01/04/09 04:26 PM
So glad it went well for you...always like to hear the happy thingsdrinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

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Sun 01/04/09 04:26 PM
Sounds good. Congrats, hopefully your good fortune continues.

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Sun 01/04/09 04:27 PM
Congrats to you flowerforyou

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Sun 01/04/09 04:29 PM

so like I was saying in my other post yesterday, I had finally decided to meet with this guy, despite my nervousness and lack of confidence.

Well, we met up today. It wasn't as awkward as I thought it was gonna be, it actually went pretty well (i think)...He came to my place to pick me up (getting into a stranger's car was a little be scary though lol) and then we went to grab some lunch...after that, we went to watch a movie and he drove me back. I was really worried about the saying goodbye part..like..I am not sure what I am supposed to do...so we hugged and said bye..he said he'll call me and that we should hang out again.

It is too early to tell if there is any "sparks" but i definitely feel really comfortable with him, as least on a friends level...

I'm glad i decided to meet up with him and thanks to all of those who gave me support and advice on here!!!
:thumbsup: Fantastic.:thumbsup:

flowers I am glad that he wasnt a serial killer or something like thatflowers

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Sun 01/04/09 04:30 PM
Glad you did it... Now get out and do it again.. It gets better each time.

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Sun 01/04/09 04:31 PM
Good for you!flowers

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Sun 01/04/09 04:33 PM
Wow!!! You DID it!!! You go, girl!!! I'm so glad you took the opportunity and that it went so well!!!! :thumbsup:

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Sun 01/04/09 04:34 PM

Glad you did it... Now get out and do it again.. It gets better each time.


Haha yeah...i did come to realize that I'm not really a big fan of dating though, at least not online dating for now...it's tiring to have to tell my entire life story all over again...not to mention that this is totally nerve-wrecking!

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Sun 01/04/09 04:35 PM

Wow!!! You DID it!!! You go, girl!!! I'm so glad you took the opportunity and that it went so well!!!! :thumbsup:


SKPCG, thanks so much for your support! you were definitely one of the ppl here that really got me to make up my mind! =)

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Sun 01/04/09 04:39 PM
Hmmm totally misunderstood this post based on the topic.
Thought you were just getting home from a date last night! Now that would of been a good post to read love

Congrats on the date! Just keep the mace handy and you "should" be fine :heart:

Best wishes flowerforyou

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Sun 01/04/09 04:44 PM
Glad you had a good time. Hope he calls you again. :thumbsup:

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Sun 01/04/09 04:44 PM
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Sun 01/04/09 04:49 PM


Wow!!! You DID it!!! You go, girl!!! I'm so glad you took the opportunity and that it went so well!!!! :thumbsup:


SKPCG, thanks so much for your support! you were definitely one of the ppl here that really got me to make up my mind! =)


Yah!!!! Cuz lord knows that SKPCG and I have been taken by skanks!!!!Huh SKPCG???? But.....I'm glad you gave this guy a chance and you're taking it slow. He may have picked you up at your place....but I'm glad you're taking it slow and were able to not feel pressured into him making you feel like he should come in when he brought you home. That shows a "gentlemen" to me!!!!

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Sun 01/04/09 04:56 PM



Wow!!! You DID it!!! You go, girl!!! I'm so glad you took the opportunity and that it went so well!!!! :thumbsup:


SKPCG, thanks so much for your support! you were definitely one of the ppl here that really got me to make up my mind! =)


Yah!!!! Cuz lord knows that SKPCG and I have been taken by skanks!!!!Huh SKPCG???? But.....I'm glad you gave this guy a chance and you're taking it slow. He may have picked you up at your place....but I'm glad you're taking it slow and were able to not feel pressured into him making you feel like he should come in when he brought you home. That shows a "gentlemen" to me!!!!


Yeah actually i was slightly worried about whether I was supposed to ask him to come in and stuff...and I THINK he kinda hinted it...when we were leaving the theater he asked "so theere's no one at your place now?" i said no and just changed the topic..and he never said anything about it again...he just hugged me and told me he had fun and will call me tonite..stuff like that..so i felt relieved =)

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Sun 01/04/09 04:59 PM




Wow!!! You DID it!!! You go, girl!!! I'm so glad you took the opportunity and that it went so well!!!! :thumbsup:


SKPCG, thanks so much for your support! you were definitely one of the ppl here that really got me to make up my mind! =)


Yah!!!! Cuz lord knows that SKPCG and I have been taken by skanks!!!!Huh SKPCG???? But.....I'm glad you gave this guy a chance and you're taking it slow. He may have picked you up at your place....but I'm glad you're taking it slow and were able to not feel pressured into him making you feel like he should come in when he brought you home. That shows a "gentlemen" to me!!!!


Yeah actually i was slightly worried about whether I was supposed to ask him to come in and stuff...and I THINK he kinda hinted it...when we were leaving the theater he asked "so theere's no one at your place now?" i said no and just changed the topic..and he never said anything about it again...he just hugged me and told me he had fun and will call me tonite..stuff like that..so i felt relieved =)


Ok the next time the correct answer to the "so there's no one at your place now?" is- 150lb Female Roc that loves biting men in the balls- or my favorite.. nothing but my full collection of tazer guns. either one will work happy

But still glad it worked out well for you.. now i just have to find people in Washington that actually are active on this site grumble

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Sun 01/04/09 05:04 PM


Ok the next time the correct answer to the "so there's no one at your place now?" is- 150lb Female Roc that loves biting men in the balls- or my favorite.. nothing but my full collection of tazer guns. either one will work happy

But still glad it worked out well for you.. now i just have to find people in Washington that actually are active on this site grumble


haha thats funny..

well i actually didnt not meet him on this site exactly...i met him on a similar website..i posted on this site b/c i know he doesn't have an account here lol

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Sun 01/04/09 05:12 PM
Edited by JoeW99 on Sun 01/04/09 05:13 PM
i have my moments.. ever think about moving to Seattle? love

On a serious note slow is good, keep it that way for now.. read your profile.. keep it slow and you will be better for it in the end happy

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Sun 01/04/09 05:12 PM
wow glad tp hear u are alright... but never give a guy your address u met off the internet!! ive met some real creeps you never know... if you decide to not like him as much as he likes you you may have a problem... since its not like real dating where you may have had personal vibes.. and even if he wanted to come in as u feel he may have been hinting.. uh what does it matter if someone else is in your house.. boy your lucky he hasnt been a creep yet!!!maybe he never will be..

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Sun 01/04/09 05:18 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 01/04/09 05:18 PM
most people are ok but like i said ive met a couple of creeps one guy pinned me against my car on a busy hwy in a resturant parking lot!!! and after i sad no to a kiss and kept shaking my head from left to right so his lips wouldnt get on mine with my hands pinned above my head still continued to try to kiss me!! all after of course he wanted me to go to his house after dinner to meet his cat!! and i said no! i had somewhere to be.. and im thanking gawd it wasnt when he dropped me off at my empty house!! or where there wasnt traffic or a public place!!

also lex from here after he decided the gal he met wasnt for him... she tried to burn his house down!!!

mind you i have met maybe over the yrs about 25 guys from online and only 2 were creepy

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