Topic: Liking someone who already has a bf/gf
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Sun 01/04/09 01:22 PM
Okay right now i have really starting to like a girl but she already has a bf and I don't want to be a home breaker but not being able to be with her really sucks. What Should I do without getting myself into any kind of problems or making her run away from me.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:24 PM
Be a friend and stay out of the way....realize that just because she is what you want, doesn't make it so. Support her in her decision and realize that caring for someone also includes wanting them to be happy...I know it sucks....same thing happened to me, but we have become the best of friends and enjoy being just thatflowerforyou

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Sun 01/04/09 01:26 PM
Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant

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Sun 01/04/09 01:29 PM
Sound advice and exactly what I am doing right now.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:29 PM

Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant

Sounds like someone's been down that road.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:29 PM

Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant
Why stay away if I am not trying to break up the relationship.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:31 PM
try to stay friend's with her !
if that dont work ...go on down the road !

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Sun 01/04/09 01:31 PM
Don't mess with it man. She is taken move on.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:33 PM


Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant
Why stay away if I am not trying to break up the relationship.


A Dog Pisses up a tree in his neighbourhood for a reason...what's your motives then? pitchfork

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Sun 01/04/09 01:34 PM


Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant
Why stay away if I am not trying to break up the relationship.


Because temeptation is a B#$TH... and the fact you are posting this question on the forums shows the temeptation is there.
Do you need to cut off all contact, no. A little space and sometime to hang out with other people you like. Think about it this way, if she leaves someone for you ... history has a way of repeating itself, and KARMA is also a B@#TH.

Best of luck.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:35 PM



Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant
Why stay away if I am not trying to break up the relationship.


A Dog Pisses up a tree in his neighbourhood for a reason...what's your motives then? pitchfork
So basically you are telling me i should end a friendship just because she ended up dating someone else. She didn't really know at the time that i had feelings for her and she doesn't even really know now so why should I end the friendship

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Sun 01/04/09 01:36 PM




Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant
Why stay away if I am not trying to break up the relationship.


A Dog Pisses up a tree in his neighbourhood for a reason...what's your motives then? pitchfork
So basically you are telling me i should end a friendship just because she ended up dating someone else. She didn't really know at the time that i had feelings for her and she doesn't even really know now so why should I end the friendship



Because you want to be with her...you want it to turn into something more which makes you biased you can't be a friend if you want a relationship that I take it she is happy in to end.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:38 PM
Look man, you don't have to listen to these people. My best friend is someone who I've been head over heels for for a long time. She's always had a boyfriend and I stay back. Now she just found out on Friday that he's cheating on her and living with another woman. Just stay where you are and support her. I may love this girl, but I'm not willing to lose a great friendship or ruin someone elses over it.

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Sun 01/04/09 01:39 PM





Stay away man...that's total disrespect to both of them rant rant rant rant rant rant rant rant
Why stay away if I am not trying to break up the relationship.


A Dog Pisses up a tree in his neighbourhood for a reason...what's your motives then? pitchfork
So basically you are telling me i should end a friendship just because she ended up dating someone else. She didn't really know at the time that i had feelings for her and she doesn't even really know now so why should I end the friendship



Because you want to be with her...you want it to turn into something more which makes you biased you can't be a friend if you want a relationship that I take it she is happy in to end.
Okay so I guess you all missed the statement that i am not a homewrecker. I am not trying to break them up and would never dream of doing that. I am respectful and I am a good guy so why are you harping on me so bad about this

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Sun 01/04/09 01:40 PM
Edited by andrew101888 on Sun 01/04/09 01:40 PM
You might want to back off. How would you feel if you were dating a girl and some guy liked her and advanced on her? Its never right to put the moves on a girl in a relationship. You can be her friend just try and repress your feelings if you can.