I know that silly, I was just saying I don't know what to say about
people like that except "what goes around, comes around".

oh, sorry bout that... you should post something about the karma topic
lol. i don't believe in that stuff though. i don't get caught up in
whether or not it catches up to them, sometimes it's just irritating
when you see it a couple times, i don't have any idea what it is about
me that would make them feel that way. i just try to go a different
way.

When someone would ask me out that I worked with or when I was on the
job, he would usually start a conversation first. I sorta figured he was
seeing if I was nice or like one of those people your talking about.
After we talked about something else for a while, then he would ask me
for a #. Have you tried that?

Oh Ghostie... a mere mortal eh?

King..yes, just as important. LOL

Actually, it's not my wording...something I was once told by a boss of
mine when I used to work in a bar. He was refering to not dating
customers or getting, uh...overly friendly with them. It's just not a
good idea...because when the situation goes bad...it just ends up REALLY
bad...

yeah, i wouldn't just go up to a women and ask her for her phone number
but i don't even get a chance to introduce my self. just about the time
i start talking to them they start acting like i have bad intentions or
something, i don't know it really ain't that big a deal

So peachie.
It's kind of like don't bite the hand that feeds ya. Or other.

I remeber in the 80s (good old days) things like asking a co-worker out
was no big deal, hell even haven a beer during lunch was no sweat. But
times have deffently changed, I don't know for the better, but changed.

I personally would never date anyone from work. But, when someone came
in to my job and asked me for my number...usually they had already
caught my eye...so I don't think its really that big of a deal. Now, I
am pretty shy, so I could never go up to a man and ask him for his phone
number---NO WAY!!
So I just think that maybe you need to go in there several times and
flirt, then ask for the number...geesh KING, you know how to work it!! I
think you could talk a lady out of anything!! A number should be pretty
easy for you to get. So just use your charming personality and get with
it :)

I think it's fine to ask someone out if they work in an office but
please don't ever ask out your waitress! If you really like her then go
there a few times, sit in her section and chat her up. And don't forget
to tip her! After a few times, leave your number with the tip or ask
for hers, but be warned that if you do get into a relationship and
things go awry, you may never get to eat there ever again.

Ghostie...

Yeah...pretty much.

plus, you don't want to screw off a job that you need for a fling that
you might not...

Hey hottguardgurl

If one were to flirt with a waitress after spending a lot of money there
and nothing became of it. I might not go there any more. Gee, can you
imagine avoiding all the restaurants because you flirted with the
waitress there and had no luck but a big belly and no cash. LOL.

Ghostrecon

Ghost-

Yeah, I get what you're saying. I was thinking more along the lines of
a waitress at a more casual restaurant where you can just drink coffee
and chill. Much cheaper :) And just because you hit on a waitress
doesn't mean you can't go back, but after dating one it's a little
awkward.

Amy

Hi Amy

Yeah! To say the least. I still would also find it awkward to show my
face after making a fool of my self for asking her out.

Ghostrecon