No offense but this is about the lamest thing I have heard. I am sorry but being nice and a weak kneed putz is worlds a part.
Jerks a huge turn off in my book.

I do

Nice guy thread #29

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It would be nice if this forum had a search feature or archives, especially for us newbies with no knowledge of the thread history here.

Nice guy threads.
You're a nice guy but...
Nice guys finish last
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I disagree.

Not for a real woman. I think that makes a man all that more strong to me.

Nice as weak? Ha ha. Try getting into an arm-wrestling match
with a fireman or paramedic.
People in the states will believe anything their television tells them. So yes they probably do. Let them have it.

I find these paradigms really amusing and telling about the states.
The "greatest generation" certainly didn't believe in trash like that.
Next time you actually win a war or do something right in general let me know. I don't think this will happen..Your social attitudes are to blame.

Most guys who refer to themselves as nice actually aren't that nice; they're usually socially awkward, rude, pushy, unattractive men who go out of their way to do what they think is expected of them and then get mad when their efforts go unnoticed.

I don't want a guy who refers to himself as nice, and I don't want the proverbial "bad boy" either, I want a guy who is decent, isn't a doormat, knows how to think and say no, and doesn't act like a jackass 98% of the time.

Oh, but it would be okay to date a bully? Really? Unless you're the bullying type yourself, I can't see it happening. I don't date jerks. They make me run a mile, because they usually have some sort of psycho thing going on. They don't think I can spot it. Big mistake. I can. . They can't see it, though, in their behaviour. Also braggers are a no-go area for me. I only date gentle guys, who know how treat a woman. Anyone saying a guy with a friendly personality is weak, must have it the wrong way round. It's self-obssessed narcassists who treat women badly, that need to get a grip. My friendly persona wouldn't gel very good with a bad guy. We'd be too opposite.

Gee talk about digging up bones...
This is an old thread revived !
{01/05/09}last post ?}
Anyway....
lol
MY opinion is that
And i am a MAN...
It is a delicate balance to be able to FEEL
And yet be STRONG...

Well said, any extreme in any direction is a no-go.

Whoever told you that was lying...

Very true. I want no part of a jerk. I would be thrilled to have a relationship with a genuine nice guy over almost any other single word definition.

Nice has been morphed into meaning a lot of things that nice is not.

Why anyone has to go to the total other extreme makes absolutely no sense.

Who you talking to,the guys been 'dead' for four
yrs


Many woman will not respect a man will collapsed
boundaries,it has nothing to do with been a nice guy that's ridiculous that so many people think
that.
Collapsed boundaries can often follow a person with
personality type: passive.
The people pleaser type.

Many nice guys have healthy firm boundaries and
assertive personalty types, my self included.


If some woman are attracted to a guy that is
personality type: aggressive and he's continuously
rude,pushy and disrespecting of others then she's
got her problems as well.

For the record, "I'm a rough boy"

Totally agree, especially the part in bold ...Every bad boy I fell in love with was a nice guy

Hi sunshine muffin!!

I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin...

That's the problem with smart woman,they are
only entertaining and stimulating when
there on my side, and scary when they are no longer.
ya s _ _ _ disturber!

Don't make me go into to my assertive personality
and let you know how that made me feel inside. thing are good
suga..hope your well