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Topic: Past Break-ups.
iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/03/09 09:53 PM
Do you feel that Heart breaking past experiences, Can plaque you in a present date or romance?

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 01/03/09 09:54 PM
Do you feel that Heart breaking past experiences, Can plaque you in a present date or romance? yes

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 01/03/09 09:54 PM
Do you feel that Heart breaking past experiences, Can plaque you in a present date or romance? yes

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 01/03/09 09:55 PM
the past is why i dont get close to anyone!!!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/03/09 09:55 PM
Ok

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/03/09 09:55 PM
Ok

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Sat 01/03/09 09:56 PM
Do you feel that Heart breaking past experiences, Can plaque you in a present date or romance? Only if you let them.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Sat 01/03/09 09:57 PM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/03/09 09:59 PM
the past is why i dont get close to anyone!!! I double dribbled you back...lol Just kidding ya Silly.. But to be real,,It must have been pretty bad to have that impact on you. I am sorry that happen to ya. I know my pasts have been a NOW presents in abstract thoughts. But I try NOT to let them interfere with my actions or much deep thinking...

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 01/03/09 10:03 PM
the past is why i dont get close to anyone!!! I double dribbled you back...lol Just kidding ya Silly.. But to be real,,It must have been pretty bad to have that impact on you. I am sorry that happen to ya. I know my pasts have been a NOW presents in abstract thoughts. But I try NOT to let them interfere with my actions or much deep thinking... ehhh...its all good!!!i have kids and school to focus on anyway!!!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/03/09 10:11 PM
the past is why i dont get close to anyone!!! I double dribbled you back...lol Just kidding ya Silly.. But to be real,,It must have been pretty bad to have that impact on you. I am sorry that happen to ya. I know my pasts have been a NOW presents in abstract thoughts. But I try NOT to let them interfere with my actions or much deep thinking... ehhh...its all good!!!i have kids and school to focus on anyway!!! Cool.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sat 01/03/09 10:11 PM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today That's the unavoidable truth!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/03/09 10:18 PM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today That's the unavoidable truth! Yes, I feel thats very true. But I have heard so many say to there mate, being upset. I will NEVER do that again,,or I AIN'T THEM... All in a reference to one of their past lovers... So these people are judging their new person with like a scale of weight comparison to a past flame..

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Sat 01/03/09 10:21 PM
You can not hold what someone has done to you in the past against someone in your future though. I do agree that what occurs in past relationships does have a way of making you more cautious but then being cautious is good, give you more time to really get to know one another better anyway

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sat 01/03/09 10:23 PM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today That's the unavoidable truth! Yes, I feel thats very true. But I have heard so many say to there mate, being upset. I will NEVER do that again,,or I AIN'T THEM... All in a reference to one of their past lovers... So these people are judging their new person with like a scale of weight comparison to a past flame.. Of course that's not fair, but it's hard not to think of your past experience & ignore it. I try very hard not to let my ex's behavior effect how I treat someone else, but the memory cannot be erased.

KymmieSue Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 1497	Sat 01/03/09 10:50 PM
Of course it has, I try hard not to but I do do some comparisons. I dont want to repeat my past mistakes or my past pains. Kind of protective of my heart.

sloughr1 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 225	Sun 01/04/09 12:33 AM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today They said it best.

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Sun 01/04/09 12:47 AM Edited by JoeW99 on Sun 01/04/09 12:48 AM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today Pretty much on the button. Good, bad, whatever... you learn to look for signs that point down those same paths... most times its a good thing not to repeat bad history.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 01/04/09 12:51 AM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today That's the unavoidable truth! Yes, I feel thats very true. But I have heard so many say to there mate, being upset. I will NEVER do that again,,or I AIN'T THEM... All in a reference to one of their past lovers... So these people are judging their new person with like a scale of weight comparison to a past flame.. Of course that's not fair, but it's hard not to think of your past experience & ignore it. I try very hard not to let my ex's behavior effect how I treat someone else, but the memory cannot be erased. So then we all CARRY the old with us forever?

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 01/04/09 01:10 AM
your past experiences good and bad make you who you are today That's the unavoidable truth! Yes, I feel thats very true. But I have heard so many say to there mate, being upset. I will NEVER do that again,,or I AIN'T THEM... All in a reference to one of their past lovers... So these people are judging their new person with like a scale of weight comparison to a past flame.. Of course that's not fair, but it's hard not to think of your past experience & ignore it. I try very hard not to let my ex's behavior effect how I treat someone else, but the memory cannot be erased. So then we all CARRY the old with us forever? I believe so. It does not have to dominate, but it is always there. You can't erase your history.