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Topic: Past Break-ups.
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Sun 01/04/09 01:11 AM
its both a blessing and a curse

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Sun 01/04/09 09:14 AM

its both a blessing and a curse
Blessing to remember and then feeling it might be the same?

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Sun 01/04/09 09:17 AM
I'm trying really hard to let that not be the case. I could hide forever and never try again but I'm not going to. I'm going to put myself out there and see what happens. Good, bad and ugly.

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Sun 01/04/09 09:36 AM
my past break ups haunt me because i have been cheated on several times because i'm not easy... so its hard for me to trust people... i tend to be afraid when i'm with someone...

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Sun 01/04/09 09:39 AM
For the most part, no. I have a few things that remind me of bad past experiences, but I find the best way to deal with that is to make my partner aware of the past experience, so they can reassure me and just be aware that sometimes it's an issue. I feel like dealing well with those things when they come up on occasion is the best way to handle them.

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Sun 01/04/09 09:42 AM

I'm trying really hard to let that not be the case. I could hide forever and never try again but I'm not going to. I'm going to put myself out there and see what happens. Good, bad and ugly.
flowerforyou This is alot of us I think..

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Sun 01/04/09 09:46 AM

my past break ups haunt me because i have been cheated on several times because i'm not easy... so its hard for me to trust people... i tend to be afraid when i'm with someone...


Sister, I'm with ya. But I'm honest about it up front. They break the trust, I'm gone. It's a deal breaker so they shouldn't be surprised. I do believe there are really good people out there though. Keep the faith.

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