If you know someone (an acquaintance) is dating a person that is extremely passive aggressive and irrationally jealous, do you tell them? Or do you let them figure it out on their own?

its always nice to have a heads up!!!

I would tell them and if they don't believe me....Then they can figure it out on their own.

I would do so subtly and probably it would go unheeded..somethings one must learn for themselves

Thanks for the advice ladies!

Trust me they will figure out the jealous part quickly enough. I was with a jealous man for almost 22 yrs and my friends all thought it was so sweet... that he was like that. I told them try living with it. He wanted to know where I was every minute, he called me constantly at work. Lord help me if I was 3 minutes late getting home from work. I had never given him any reason to distrust me. I bent over backwards to ease his mind... but it didn't matter. Needless to say, he let it get out of hand, and I let it get out of hand also.

I do think we as women should warn others if we feel the need.I've learned much from sharing information with other women.I think their can be diffrent views on the same situation as it's hard to know what to believe I guess you just have to trust what your heart is telling you and hope you've made the right call

in most circumstances...they are blind!!
if they are dating ,they are sooo in luv. that they dont or cant see reality!!!!
its a matter of wanting to believe.
if its a good friend they will see that you are there for them in the end.

Thanks to everyone that posted a comment or advice!

you can tell them what YOU have experienced or have seen or heard about that person. don't, however tell them to stay away. that person may be passive jealous with someone you know but with a different person it may totally be different. each relationship is different and should be treated as such
good luck

I agree with this statement as well

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