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Topic: Why do some think dating sites are for.......
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Fri 01/02/09 09:55 PM




You're now the 5th or 6th guy telling me I am wasting my time here....soon....you guys will convince me you're right.
I just signed up for connectingsingles....I'm hoping there are more men of confidence there.


It's only a waste if you think you are going to figure someone out online before you meet them in person.

Trust me, you won't.


Of course I won't know for sure until I meet them in person...didn't say I would....but ...when I do meet a man from the web I'll know far more about him than I would if I just met him in a bar.
I already know some about you just from your comments in my post thread.

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Fri 01/02/09 09:56 PM




Being 30, I wouldn't think you'd want to piss away your time talking online, when you can simply meet and see what the chemistry is like and go from there.


(apologizing in advance......)

WHY?????? What happens after 30????? Is she supposed to be unworthy of finding a suitable man after a certain age???

I thought I found my 'one and only' while I was in my 20's only to be divorced by 30. I spent my 30's finding myself and raising my girls....oh wait....is that what you meant? At 30 she will be too old to have children? Many women are waiting to have children at an older age, nothing wrong with that.

But, back to my story....I found the man who makes my life complete at age 40.....Don't give up Bananaramaa. Much luck to you in your search!!flowerforyou


Dude. Try reading her OP and her profile. She is afraid she is old at 30.

I'm sure she doesn't want to become a spinster.


Is this the quote from her profile that you are interpreting as "old at 30"?:

On the other hand I'm no longer a 20 something kid and I expect to be treated like a lady.

Because if it is, I think you are wrong, the young lady wants men to look at her as just that...A LADY

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Fri 01/02/09 09:57 PM

I already know some about you just from your comments in my post thread.


Cool. Did you pay the $5 to join the Miss Cleo's fortune tellers anonymous association too? :banana:

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Fri 01/02/09 09:57 PM
oc, laugh

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Fri 01/02/09 09:58 PM



Oh ya .. we all get the same lines hon. It's called the





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I assumed as much...didn't think they only said those lines to me. ...laugh ....I don't mind the lines I was just hoping for more.... substance? In real life you don't get the luxury of walking around with your profile hanging around your neck...on the internet you do. I'm surprised more men don't use their profile to increase their chances.

The flattery doesn't bother men...I'm flattered. The men who keep telling me I shouldn't be here.... implying this place is just for the down trodden.....is what surprises me.


Did you notice that they haven't been here long?




No...I didn't....does it matter how long they have been here?

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Fri 01/02/09 09:59 PM
(((elli)))flowerforyou
you hit the nail right on the head !!!!
thats all she is asking for to be treated like a lady !

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Fri 01/02/09 10:00 PM





You're now the 5th or 6th guy telling me I am wasting my time here....soon....you guys will convince me you're right.
I just signed up for connectingsingles....I'm hoping there are more men of confidence there.


It's only a waste if you think you are going to figure someone out online before you meet them in person.

Trust me, you won't.


Of course I won't know for sure until I meet them in person...didn't say I would....but ...when I do meet a man from the web I'll know far more about him than I would if I just met him in a bar.
I already know some about you just from your comments in my post thread.


If the guy is being truthful you will. Doesn't mean you'll have any chemistry with that person. If you meet someone at a bar, you'll at least know if you're attracted to someone or not. Online, sure you can talk for a bit, you'll meet them and chances are they'll have a lazy eye or something lol.




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Fri 01/02/09 10:01 PM




Oh ya .. we all get the same lines hon. It's called the





((((((((((( INTERNET )))))))))))



:wink:


I assumed as much...didn't think they only said those lines to me. ...laugh ....I don't mind the lines I was just hoping for more.... substance? In real life you don't get the luxury of walking around with your profile hanging around your neck...on the internet you do. I'm surprised more men don't use their profile to increase their chances.

The flattery doesn't bother men...I'm flattered. The men who keep telling me I shouldn't be here.... implying this place is just for the down trodden.....is what surprises me.


Did you notice that they haven't been here long?




No...I didn't....does it matter how long they have been here?


They're talking negatively about the site when they haven't been here long. It takes time to develop relationships.

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Fri 01/02/09 10:01 PM

(((elli)))flowerforyou
you hit the nail right on the head !!!!
thats all she is asking for to be treated like a lady !


{{{{{{chevy}}}}}}Happy New Year!! smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched

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Fri 01/02/09 10:01 PM
Hey...just because I drool a lot and tie my shoes with my teeth don't be **** blocking man...

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Fri 01/02/09 10:02 PM
((bababaramaa))flowerforyou
just enjoy yourself and relax thing's will work out ! you find out who is real and who is not !flowerforyou

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Fri 01/02/09 10:02 PM
Is this the quote from her profile that you are interpreting as "old at 30"?:

On the other hand I'm no longer a 20 something kid and I expect to be treated like a lady.

Because if it is, I think you are wrong, the young lady wants men to look at her as just that...A LADY


Why are you turning this into a conversation about yourself?

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Fri 01/02/09 10:02 PM
lmao@OC

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Fri 01/02/09 10:03 PM

(((elli)))flowerforyou
you hit the nail right on the head !!!!
thats all she is asking for to be treated like a lady !


and for a first date somewhere other then those places where you clean your own table when you're finished.

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Fri 01/02/09 10:03 PM


(((elli)))flowerforyou
you hit the nail right on the head !!!!
thats all she is asking for to be treated like a lady !


{{{{{{chevy}}}}}}Happy New Year!! smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched
happy new year to you and jon hun !flowerforyou blushing

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Fri 01/02/09 10:03 PM
i :heart: mindy

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