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Topic: There is no point
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 01/02/09 05:07 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage?

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Fri 01/02/09 05:10 PM
I'd have to say no since I do not plan on getting married again. That would mean any relationship is pointless and that in turn would likely mean no more sex for Mitch. There's always a point...

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 01/02/09 05:10 PM
nope

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Fri 01/02/09 05:11 PM
not nessesarely

Roamer66 Joined Wed 12/24/08 Posts: 169	Fri 01/02/09 05:12 PM
getting into any relationship is sort of an agreement, so both have to be on the same page, if a guy want to get married and the gal only wants a friendship, guess where this relationship is heading?

Wanderwhere Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 77	Fri 01/02/09 05:12 PM
Marriage is irrelevant once your kids are raised. A relationship is something that exists independent of marriage. You can be married without a relationship; you can have a relationship with out a marriage. And yes, I believe there is a point to a relationship.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Fri 01/02/09 05:15 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? not all relationships lead to marrage

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 01/02/09 05:16 PM
Marriage is irrelevant once your kids are raised. A relationship is something that exists independent of marriage. You can be married without a relationship; you can have a relationship with out a marriage. And yes, I believe there is a point to a relationship.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 01/02/09 05:16 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? not all relationships lead to marrage

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 01/02/09 05:17 PM
some people aren't lookin for marriage, but would still like to find a long term commitment.

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Fri 01/02/09 05:22 PM
A relationship can go many different ways... and to limit oneself to the thought of only "marriage or bust" is pretty detrimental. Relationships evolve and change throughout their course and while marriage may not seem like a possiblity at first or even later, it still is worth the time and effort to experience a great relationship with someone for whatever its worth.

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Fri 01/02/09 05:28 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? Although that is what we are taught growing up that we have to get married, otherwise it is wrong, sinful, etc., the world has changed so much and so fast, that it should be a personal choice. The point shouldn't be about rings, papers, and names, it should be about the heart and soul connecting on the same deep levels, and working toward a life together, however you both agree to.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 01/02/09 05:30 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? I've been married, would be very unlikely to do it again. Any relationship I would be in, would be with the understanding that marriage is not in the cards. Doesn't mean I wouldn't like to be in a relationship, just that I don't think marriage is a necessity.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 01/02/09 05:37 PM
that's "beside" the point

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 01/02/09 05:38 PM
All relationships lead toward the properties of marriage as just being together YOUR a couple, then if you live together, your in a marriage of hearts. Then if you feel its together forever, YOU BOTH want it to be right..So then,,,you propose, she says no,,then you brake-up and life goes on again....lol

Snugglesbyfire Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 24422	Fri 01/02/09 05:43 PM
Marriage is something I have no desire to ever try again. Living with someone is a different matter. I truly believe that a good percentage of people stop working on their relationship once they get married. Those who live together without the vows being said try harder. This is just my opinon.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Fri 01/02/09 06:10 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? No, sometimes marriage will kill a perfectly good relationship!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 01/02/09 06:16 PM
No marriage

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/02/09 06:17 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? No I don't believe that

jackalopeknight Joined Fri 12/26/08 Posts: 101	Fri 01/02/09 06:39 PM
Do you believe there is no point in being in a relationship that's not leading to marriage? Everyone who I know that is married, or has been married all say the same thing. "don't ever get married" If you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you don't need a wedding, a vow or a ring. You just need to be there till the end. If you can do that, the rest are just details.