Topic: No profile pic equals no response
alicat4213's photo
Fri 01/02/09 12:35 PM
Hear Heardrinker drinker

betsybubbles's photo
Fri 01/02/09 12:38 PM

I understand the need for privacy, vanity, and insecurity that comprise most people's reasons for not posting a recent legitimate photo.

However, as far as I'm concerned you can tell your tale walking. Don't write me.

I need a face to put to the words otherwise it makes me very uncomfortable. It is not about me being shallow. It's about who the f*ck are you? You could be any one of 6 billion people on the planet.


smokin Had to vent smokin

Hit the nail on the head!!!!!

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 01/02/09 12:53 PM

even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Fri 01/02/09 12:56 PM


even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.


every damned time i have viewed a man's webcam he's sittin there sky clad showing hit eeny teeny weenie to the world. i'm okay without the webcam.

"Excuse me.. you're balls are showing... BUMBLEBEE TUNA!"

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:07 PM



even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.


every damned time i have viewed a man's webcam he's sittin there sky clad showing hit eeny teeny weenie to the world. i'm okay without the webcam.

"Excuse me.. you're balls are showing... BUMBLEBEE TUNA!"

Dang...I am either the most unsexually appealing woman out here or extremely lucky. I have been out on the internet dating sites for about 2 years now. I have have 6 icky emails that were sexual. I have only had 2 IM's that were sexual. One webcam session that lasted for about 5 seconds.
I tell everyone that I will use screen capture feature and will report them. I know on Yahoo they will take care of it. So I have no clue on why some peole are harrassed this way and others aren't
Till it becomes an epidemic I will continue to use my Webcam.
Bumblebee tuna that is pricless....

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:10 PM




even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.


every damned time i have viewed a man's webcam he's sittin there sky clad showing hit eeny teeny weenie to the world. i'm okay without the webcam.

"Excuse me.. you're balls are showing... BUMBLEBEE TUNA!"

Dang...I am either the most unsexually appealing woman out here or extremely lucky. I have been out on the internet dating sites for about 2 years now. I have have 6 icky emails that were sexual. I have only had 2 IM's that were sexual. One webcam session that lasted for about 5 seconds.
I tell everyone that I will use screen capture feature and will report them. I know on Yahoo they will take care of it. So I have no clue on why some peole are harrassed this way and others aren't
Till it becomes an epidemic I will continue to use my Webcam.
Bumblebee tuna that is pricless....


trust me you're lucky. i dont bother reporting them.i just tell them that i really didn't need to see their horribly deformed carcass of a body. they leave me alone after that.

ya know?

lol yeah jim carey did it best.

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:11 PM



even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.


every damned time i have viewed a man's webcam he's sittin there sky clad showing hit eeny teeny weenie to the world. i'm okay without the webcam.

"Excuse me.. you're balls are showing... BUMBLEBEE TUNA!"



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RKISIT's photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:12 PM
i'm the tall martini glass to the left or the horizontal blinds in the backgroundhuh

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:13 PM




even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.


every damned time i have viewed a man's webcam he's sittin there sky clad showing hit eeny teeny weenie to the world. i'm okay without the webcam.

"Excuse me.. you're balls are showing... BUMBLEBEE TUNA!"



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yeah laugh it up chuckles

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no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:18 PM
As for me, I never refuse a friends request,,,and I never refuse a stranger from my type because they have no pic.
And the main reason for that is, I was a blue box on here for a month before I got a pic up.
But most who don't post a pic,,don't stay long.
BUT,,I do and have had MANY friends on here for their own reasoning,,NOT post any pic's,,and two of the ladies were,,,BELIEVE THIS,,,VERY BEAUTIFUL...
THEY said they didn't want a guy because of their looks,,,and dam it man,,they were model material..drinker

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:21 PM

As for me, I never refuse a friends request,,,and I never refuse a stranger from my type because they have no pic.
And the main reason for that is, I was a blue box on here for a month before I got a pic up.
But most who don't post a pic,,don't stay long.
BUT,,I do and have had MANY friends on here for their own reasoning,,NOT post any pic's,,and two of the ladies were,,,BELIEVE THIS,,,VERY BEAUTIFUL...
THEY said they didn't want a guy because of their looks,,,and dam it man,,they were model material..drinker



I maintain that if all we see are words there is no telling who is saying them. Bottom line. End of story.

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:52 PM
if they have no photo on there profile and they wont email me one then i know there covering up and i stay away

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:55 PM

even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.


yeah, i was just about to say that. a person can "steal" several pics of someone else and pose as that person. so while i totally agree with it being creepy talking to someone with no photo, it doesn't really guarantee it's them. you're kind of operating on faith, since it's the net.:wink:

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:56 PM



even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.

That is what Webcam is for....
I used to be a person that didn't believe in webcamming. I do today and use it quite frequently. Will I turn it on for everyone Nope...But I Do insist on at least one session before the first meet. I have said this over and over. I take a still shot of that webcam session,print it out and that is who I had better be meeting.
I have only had one icky quick shot on a webcam that one was quickly shut off and deleted.


every damned time i have viewed a man's webcam he's sittin there sky clad showing hit eeny teeny weenie to the world. i'm okay without the webcam.

"Excuse me.. you're balls are showing... BUMBLEBEE TUNA!"


LOL, gross!!!laugh

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:57 PM
i normally text people my photo from my mobile phone so they know there really talking to me biggrin

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:58 PM
laugh laugh laugh

my job is done here.

BettyB's photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:58 PM


even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.


yeah, i was just about to say that. a person can "steal" several pics of someone else and pose as that person. so while i totally agree with it being creepy talking to someone with no photo, it doesn't really guarantee it's them. you're kind of operating on faith, since it's the net.:wink:

And something else I want to point out even married men and women will put up a recent photo of themselves and claim on their profile to be widowed or divorced..I know this is true cause it happened to me first hand.

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 01:59 PM



even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.


yeah, i was just about to say that. a person can "steal" several pics of someone else and pose as that person. so while i totally agree with it being creepy talking to someone with no photo, it doesn't really guarantee it's them. you're kind of operating on faith, since it's the net.:wink:

And something else I want to point out even married men and women will put up a recent photo of themselves and claim on their profile to be widowed or divorced..I know this is true cause it happened to me first hand.



That is another issue altogether, but of course it is true

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 02:00 PM



even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.


yeah, i was just about to say that. a person can "steal" several pics of someone else and pose as that person. so while i totally agree with it being creepy talking to someone with no photo, it doesn't really guarantee it's them. you're kind of operating on faith, since it's the net.:wink:

And something else I want to point out even married men and women will put up a recent photo of themselves and claim on their profile to be widowed or divorced..I know this is true cause it happened to me first hand.


Omg, this happened to me a few months ago. This guy lied and said he was divorced and his wife had abandoned him and their kids. So I messaged him from another account- this was through messenger- and he didn't know it was me. Long story short, he's still married and basically sponges off his wife and trolls for women while she's at work. Nasty nasty...

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 02:01 PM



even with a photo how do you know it is really their pic? I have seen some that I wondered about.


yeah, i was just about to say that. a person can "steal" several pics of someone else and pose as that person. so while i totally agree with it being creepy talking to someone with no photo, it doesn't really guarantee it's them. you're kind of operating on faith, since it's the net.:wink:

And something else I want to point out even married men and women will put up a recent photo of themselves and claim on their profile to be widowed or divorced..I know this is true cause it happened to me first hand.


thats bad, i didnt know that