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ive got this gay friend, im fine with wat he does and hes a really cool guy, but recently he started hittin on me, wat do i say to him that i don hurt his feelings??
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Do you really believe it is him hitting on you, or just playful flirting or joking around.
If he knows your striaght or what not, you can joking say something back to remind him your not gay or interested in him. Be like.. "Oh if you only were a chick! Ha ha" IDK If anything be flattered 
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yes im sure he is hitting on me, like the past couple days, and right now i no hes drunk and he is messaging me all kinds a dirty stuff, and its really weirdin me out, i don wanna be an ass cause i respect him for wat he is, i jus don wanna be hit on by him you no wat i mean!!!
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You just need to be up front with him and let him know it makes you uncomfortable... maybe he doesn't realize he is doing it or how weirded out you get.
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ok thank you
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I'd say flirt back BUT....Since it's not your thing....
You just gotta be nice and say "Hey, you're an awesome friend so when you start seeming to hit on me, even when you're just joking, it kinda makes me feel a bit uncomfortable..." |
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he got really nasty and i think i got a bit brutal in my reply, but hopefully he rethinks this tomoro!!
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hey bro
I was in the same situation.I had a few friends who were gay. I had to end the friendship,because they were not getting it through there head,not to mess with me. but it can be hard,I understand just gotta be real,and upfront bro |
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i just feel bad for bein so brutal, i hope he don get mad or nothin!!
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Edited by
OrangeCat
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Fri 01/02/09 12:47 AM
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sometimes ya gotta be
I have no prob with any one being gay,till they start messing with me |
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i respect wat he is, he should respect wat i am!!!
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I just want to know what he was saying he he he
 
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he was jus sayin he wanted someone to mess aroound with, i said man you no im straight, then he said i would never no the diff, and that guys do it better, he said wat does it matter if its a guy or girl suckin ur C#CK!!! And he said it only hurts the first time!!! is that enough detail for ya!!!
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well I tell ya,I would have one less friend,specially if he aint respecting ya
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oh lordie yeah.. thanks.. ha ha... good thing you set him straight.. hopefully he got the message though.. was just wondering if.. hell i don't know but hey he is being disrespectful to you... saying all that... ha ha
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Edited by
Winx
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Fri 01/02/09 12:56 AM
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he was jus sayin he wanted someone to mess aroound with, i said man you no im straight, then he said i would never no the diff, and that guys do it better, he said wat does it matter if its a guy or girl suckin ur C#CK!!! And he said it only hurts the first time!!! is that enough detail for ya!!! Tell him that no means no and that you're never going to change your mind. If he doesn't listen, he's not respecting you. If he still continues, tell him that he is crossing the line and you can't be friends with him if he continues. JMHO. |
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givin him benefit of the doubt cause he IS drunk, if he apolagizes tomoro itll be ok!!
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we aint saying to burn him at the stake! Ha ha
just saying that its wrong to be coming on to you if he knows your straight.. you came here asking for our thoughts on what to do silly...   you did the right thing
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Hmmm....Not gonna lie.
That is kinda hot. XD Too bad you're not at least bi. Lol But hey, at least you had the guts to tell him how it is. If he can't handle it, then looks like he'll have to make a new friend. |
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