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Topic: Is it possible?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/01/09 10:45 PM
Is it possible to make yourself feel romantic love for someone who loves you, or must it just "happen"?

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Thu 01/01/09 10:47 PM
you cant make your heart feel something it wont......i believe bonnie raitt said that!!!

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Thu 01/01/09 10:47 PM
Is it possible to make yourself feel romantic love for someone who loves you, or must it just "happen"? I guess I could fake it if I had to, but I don't think it's really worth doing unless you are inspired.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 01/01/09 10:47 PM
I kind of think it just happens but I know it is posible to talk yourself out of it because I have done that.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 01/01/09 10:47 PM
I don't believe you can force feelings

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Thu 01/01/09 10:47 PM
it must happen .....

willaxtman Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 141	Thu 01/01/09 10:47 PM
i believe with time a feeling may come to grow? but to just force yourself into it? nah i dont think it would be true romantic love

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/01/09 10:49 PM
you cant make your heart feel something it wont......i believe bonnie raitt said that!!! She sure did

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 01/01/09 10:49 PM Edited by OrangeCat on Thu 01/01/09 10:50 PM
no you cant make your heart feel,what it does not

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Thu 01/01/09 10:50 PM
the stupidest question I've ever heard is, "Why don't you love me?" there is no answer to that question

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/01/09 10:53 PM
the stupidest question I've ever heard is, "Why don't you love me?" there is no answer to that question

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 01/01/09 10:53 PM
I think at times you can fool yourself by the idea of it all.. does that make sense.. did in my head

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/01/09 10:59 PM
I think at times you can fool yourself by the idea of it all.. does that make sense.. did in my head Makes sense

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 01/02/09 05:04 AM
Its possible that it can, as in a sense or erotic love. But genuine love? No. Not right away. That takes time to develop.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 01/02/09 05:05 AM
I kind of think it just happens but I know it is posible to talk yourself out of it because I have done that. That's something I'd like to learn how to do.

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Fri 01/02/09 05:10 AM
Is it possible to make yourself feel romantic love for someone who loves you, or must it just "happen"? I think a better question would be "why would u lead someone on if u dont feel same?"

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Fri 01/02/09 05:28 AM
It's like magic, it must just happen

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 01/02/09 06:57 PM
Is it possible to make yourself feel romantic love for someone who loves you, or must it just "happen"? I think a better question would be "why would u lead someone on if u dont feel same?" good question

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Fri 01/02/09 07:12 PM
Has to happen on its own... can't make it happen... and one shouldn't let it get to that point anyways; where someone loves you and you can not reciprocate...

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Fri 01/02/09 07:27 PM
you can't force love man. just like you can't fight it.