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i found someone on this site and was with him 8months. eventually the distance was too hard and he couldnt handle waiting for me to finish school and move! I think that a lot more people would find someone for them if distance wasnt a factor
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Edited by
quiet_2008
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Thu 01/01/09 07:09 PM
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ya know what I always say, when you give up and quit lookin and you're finally comfortable with the idea of being alone, THATS when love smacks you like a 2x4 right between the eyes
your a gorgeous lady, junebug. you're sweet and charming and intelligent. You'll find somebody |
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I think a lot more people than we realize are afraid of emotional intimacy or are people who "love too much".
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After several tries on several sites as well as the real world, I finally found the one for me when I really wasn't even looking. I almost didn't even send that first message because I thought there was no way in hell she would give me the time of day. I'm damn glad I did now. 
If I can find it, trust me it's out there for everyone. Ya know, I was wondering about this too...if we don't write to folks because we think we already know they won't give us the time of day or are out of our league? I had a couple emails completely ignored. But the way I look at it, if they are the type of person to just pass judgement and turn their nose up without even knonwing me, they aren't the type of person I'd be looking for anyway. But I didn't give up, and now I am one happy camper.
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ya know what I always say, when you give up and quit lookin and you're fianlly comfortable with the idea of being alone, THATS when love smacks you like a 2x4 right between the eyes your a gorgeous lady, junebug. you're sweet and charming and intelligent. You'll find somebody Well, your're a sweetheart for sayin all that...and ya know I adore you,  but this really isn't about me or a pity thread. I just get tired of all the threads about folks complainin' about the losers...no one...well, so few...seem to have happy endings....my heart needs a few more happy endings!!
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Not everyone appears online as they are in real life! So with that said, I take longer to see if someone is actually interested and if they are who they represent themselves to be! Well said! |
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After several tries on several sites as well as the real world, I finally found the one for me when I really wasn't even looking. I almost didn't even send that first message because I thought there was no way in hell she would give me the time of day. I'm damn glad I did now.
If I can find it, trust me it's out there for everyone. Ya know, I was wondering about this too...if we don't write to folks because we think we already know they won't give us the time of day or are out of our league? I had a couple emails completely ignored. But the way I look at it, if they are the type of person to just pass judgement and turn their nose up without even knonwing me, they aren't the type of person I'd be looking for anyway. But I didn't give up, and now I am one happy camper.
Yeah...a happy ending! Good for you!!
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ya know what I always say, when you give up and quit lookin and you're fianlly comfortable with the idea of being alone, THATS when love smacks you like a 2x4 right between the eyes your a gorgeous lady, junebug. you're sweet and charming and intelligent. You'll find somebody Well, your're a sweetheart for sayin all that...and ya know I adore you, but this really isn't about me or a pity thread. I just get tired of all the threads about folks complainin' about the losers...no one...well, so few...seem to have happy endings....my heart needs a few more happy endings!!
just look at me and paper or dan and venus they are out there |
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I think a lot more people than we realize are afraid of emotional intimacy or are people who "love too much". Ya mean they have 'issues' and I think you're right about that. Think before ya place a profile on a dating site, ya need to first deal with your issues so you can move on. |
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After several tries on several sites as well as the real world, I finally found the one for me when I really wasn't even looking. I almost didn't even send that first message because I thought there was no way in hell she would give me the time of day. I'm damn glad I did now.
If I can find it, trust me it's out there for everyone. Ya know, I was wondering about this too...if we don't write to folks because we think we already know they won't give us the time of day or are out of our league? I had a couple emails completely ignored. But the way I look at it, if they are the type of person to just pass judgement and turn their nose up without even knonwing me, they aren't the type of person I'd be looking for anyway. But I didn't give up, and now I am one happy camper.
Yeah...a happy ending! Good for you!!
Thank you. Yes, a very happy ending. I didn't even think I'd get a reply, and she turned out to be "the one". And miles means nothing if it's the real thing. It's out there, as long as you don't give up. |
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Yes, a very happy ending. I didn't even think I'd get a reply, and she turned out to be "the one". And miles means nothing if it's the real thing. It's out there, as long as you don't give up. Thank you! Thank you! for saying the miles don't have to be an issue, if ya want it, you'll make it work. |
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Yes, a very happy ending. I didn't even think I'd get a reply, and she turned out to be "the one". And miles means nothing if it's the real thing. It's out there, as long as you don't give up. Thank you! Thank you! for saying the miles don't have to be an issue, if ya want it, you'll make it work. No amount of miles should stand in the way of love. I drive race cars... a 12 hour drive in a regular car I can do standing on my head. LOL |
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Edited by
quiet_2008
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Thu 01/01/09 07:25 PM
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Yes, a very happy ending. I didn't even think I'd get a reply, and she turned out to be "the one". And miles means nothing if it's the real thing. It's out there, as long as you don't give up. Thank you! Thank you! for saying the miles don't have to be an issue, if ya want it, you'll make it work. papersmile just left today to go home. 1200 miles away. the distance is an annoyance and an aggravation but not an insurmountable one |
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you guys give me hope! I always believed long distance could work! but after my relationship ended I figured I was just being too much of a romantic! Im so happy to here ppl who think like me
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I just watched today the youtube vid --robin and lisa-- it definately gives me hope that love and understanding is out there!
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you guys give me hope! I always believed long distance could work! but after my relationship ended I figured I was just being too much of a romantic! Im so happy to here ppl who think like me This is what I'm hoping for from this thread...to turn your thoughts around, think outside of the box, away from the familiar, take a chance when ya think there is none. It's hard enough without being self-defeatists. |
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I just watched today the youtube vid --robin and lisa-- it definately gives me hope that love and understanding is out there! I missed that...where is it? Robin and Lisa are truly a love story! |
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awwwwwww shucks
I don't even have a link to that |
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you guys give me hope! I always believed long distance could work! but after my relationship ended I figured I was just being too much of a romantic! Im so happy to here ppl who think like me You have to be willing to make it work. You have to be willing to compromise. And to be honest, being a few miles apart leaves no choice but to take the time to get to know each other, learn about each other, and all that. After our first chat until the wee hours of the morning, we knew, but we also discussed the distance thing and how to make it work. I just spent the afternoon today with an atlas and Mapquest and an ink pen trying to figure how I'm going to get there. LOL Communication is a big factor in making it work. |
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Edited by
tanyaann
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Thu 01/01/09 07:35 PM
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I just watched today the youtube vid --robin and lisa-- it definately gives me hope that love and understanding is out there! I missed that...where is it? Robin and Lisa are truly a love story! got the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mqcl7krCECc |
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