Topic: Initiating Female Friendships/(same sex friendships)
Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:42 PM
...it would seem abit unorthodox on a dating site, and abit..(hmm, how shall I put this: "awkward")...how would you even go about it?whoa

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Tue 12/30/08 10:44 PM
whats the big deal???? If I think someone is cool and I will send a request saying......I think they are cool.....!!!bigsmile

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:46 PM
threaten them with sporks????


I think for the most part if you hang out in the forums and get to know people you make a natural friendship with men and women regardless of the fact that this is a dating site

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:48 PM
or you could belittle them until they leave ....

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:52 PM

whats the big deal???? If I think someone is cool and I will send a request saying......I think they are cool.....!!!bigsmile


Hmm, thats pretty forward and direct... wouldn't want to offend anyone though or freak them... =o/
I'd think to think most people are nice and polite...

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:54 PM
I have a lot of female friends that I have made on this site.

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:54 PM


whats the big deal???? If I think someone is cool and I will send a request saying......I think they are cool.....!!!bigsmile


Hmm, thats pretty forward and direct... wouldn't want to offend anyone though or freak them... =o/
I'd think to think most people are nice and polite...


...know what?, Ima try it and post my experiences!biggrin

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 10:55 PM

I have a lot of female friends that I have made on this site.


That's cool! in the forums or search engine?

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:00 PM


I have a lot of female friends that I have made on this site.


That's cool! in the forums or search engine?


I have met them all in the forums. However, if a female initiated contact with me via email as a friend, I would certainly respond.

Redshirt's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:02 PM
This is more than a "dating site" it is a social networking site. A number of people have friends of the same sex.

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:03 PM
Edited by Berryboo on Tue 12/30/08 11:04 PM

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:04 PM



I have a lot of female friends that I have made on this site.


That's cool! in the forums or search engine?


I have met them all in the forums. However, if a female initiated contact with me via email as a friend, I would certainly respond.


Thanks for the encouragment :smile:

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:28 PM
I think it is rather easy to establish a friendship with another person of the same sex on this site. If they make a remark or express a similiar interest or experience you just send a note and tell them and offer to be friends.

If you don't suggest a sexual relationship I don't think anyone is going to assume you are proposeing for anything more than friendship only. It is not rocket science to make your preferences known. Most people state that in their profile.

People here share Christmas cards, birthdays, and other life events so it is easy to figure out what you have in common.

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:32 PM

I think it is rather easy to establish a friendship with another person of the same sex on this site. If they make a remark or express a similiar interest or experience you just send a note and tell them and offer to be friends.

If you don't suggest a sexual relationship I don't think anyone is going to assume you are proposeing for anything more than friendship only. It is not rocket science to make your preferences known. Most people state that in their profile.

People here share Christmas cards, birthdays, and other life events so it is easy to figure out what you have in common.


thanks.:smile:

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Tue 12/30/08 11:37 PM


whats the big deal???? If I think someone is cool and I will send a request saying......I think they are cool.....!!!bigsmile


Hmm, thats pretty forward and direct... wouldn't want to offend anyone though or freak them... =o/
I'd think to think most people are nice and polite...
well you dont go stalking random women!!!laugh laugh laugh It is basically in the forums you chat with people. Its not a lesbian thing......noway laugh

Berryboo's photo
Tue 12/30/08 11:40 PM



whats the big deal???? If I think someone is cool and I will send a request saying......I think they are cool.....!!!bigsmile


Hmm, thats pretty forward and direct... wouldn't want to offend anyone though or freak them... =o/
I'd think to think most people are nice and polite...
well you dont go stalking random women!!!laugh laugh laugh It is basically in the forums you chat with people. Its not a lesbian thing......noway laugh


:laughing: yep...ofcourse!

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Wed 12/31/08 12:11 AM
unless of course you do want to see my boobs!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

But that may cost you.......big $$$$$$$$$:wink: