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I find it amusing that the ones who ask this are the ones in a messed up relationship! Like they really got a lot of room to talk!
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Nothing wrong with being single and nothing wrong with being a couple what is important is being happy in your whatever situation you're in.
We all want the perfect mate but that doesn't exists so thats why there is so many single people these days. In the older days you didn't have a choice you had to be with someone be in a happy relation or not but today we want so much to be in the perfect one that we forget that perfection is only achieve if you accept the imperfections of your mate. I've been single for a long time by my own choice won't say no to a relation but won't say absolutely yes because I am suppose to be with a mate. |
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I find it amusing that the ones who ask this are the ones in a messed up relationship! Like they really got a lot of room to talk!
For some reason a few people who are in a relationship whether it is bad or not; feel a teeny tiny bit of superiority over people not in a relationship... 
Most likely because their relationships are not perfect and they have a need to validate that they are still in a better place then their single counter parts... 
I have my own issues with trust and self doubt... but in the end I think I will be ok... one way or another... 
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You could always say "My, my! You're so interested in my life when I should think you'd be busy with your own."
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Something
is wrong with me...........IM BROKEN!! 
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Let's see.... hhhmm.... what's wrong with me? 
My @ss is too fat. I am too opinionated. I think most guys are stupid (please don't take offense lol) I am too busy! I am too demanding! I am too messy! I am too driven! I am too picky! I am too disorganized! LOL I am too....
Luckily, no one has said it to me yet! And I would probably laugh my tushie off if someone did! LOL |
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I find it amusing that the ones who ask this are the ones in a messed up relationship! Like they really got a lot of room to talk!
For some reason a few people who are in a relationship whether it is bad or not; feel a teeny tiny bit of superiority over people not in a relationship...
Most likely because their relationships are not perfect and they have a need to validate that they are still in a better place then their single counter parts...
I have my own issues with trust and self doubt... but in the end I think I will be ok... one way or another...
Oh well said! I've noticed that attitude too in a couple of my married friends. I bet you're right on why.
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You could always say "My, my! You're so interested in my life when I should think you'd be busy with your own." I'm gonna keep that response handy for the next time my friend brings this up. 
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Something is wrong with me...........IM BROKEN!!
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There is something wrong with me?
 
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What's wrong with me is I know what I want, I know what I DON'T want, and everybody wants to change my mind about it. Like it's any of their business.
Cardboard cutouts aren't known for their ability to think outside the box....seeing as how they're made from the same material AS the box.... |
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There is something wrong with me?
No.
I was talking about a friend who seems to think there's something wrong with me for being single so long. Thought that'd make a good title for this thread since it was the first thing out her mouth.
Have you experienced something like this with a friend or relative?
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There is something wrong with me?
No.
I was talking about a friend who seems to think there's something wrong with me for being single so long. Thought that'd make a good title for this thread since it was the first thing out her mouth.
Have you experienced something like this with a friend or relative?
Not recently,  However, that was my Dad's favorite saying when I did something stupid. Miss you dad! 
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most of my friends are in worse relationships than my marriage was. So when they ask..
I just say.....what ever do you mean.... I'm so lucky we had the sense to walk away...... then I say.....why do you stay...again????? that sounds mean I know...but we doooo get tired of hearin it, and it does shut them up. |
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What's wrong with me is I know what I want, I know what I DON'T want, and everybody wants to change my mind about it. Like it's any of their business. Cardboard cutouts aren't known for their ability to think outside the box....seeing as how they're made from the same material AS the box.... It's really kind of presumptuous on their part to assume they know best on what would truly make you happy. Good for you for standing your ground.
Yeah, cardboard cutouts are boring. Plus I think they're more apt to either fall apart or burst into flames when you have sex with them. (depending on how fast you're going.)  
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most of my friends are in worse relationships than my marriage was. So when they ask.. I just say.....what ever do you mean.... I'm so lucky we had the sense to walk away...... then I say.....why do you stay...again????? that sounds mean I know...but we doooo get tired of hearin it, and it does shut them up. I like that! Think I'll keep that response handy too.  Naw, it doesn't doesn't sound mean to me. Sounds just about right.
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Edited by
freeonthree
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Tue 12/30/08 03:19 PM
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I think I found the best alternative to this whole delema.
OK, alot of relationships fail after some time, thats just a fact of life. My brother is on his 6th wife ! Yikes ! I tended to get bored with relationships in the past, and I think it's because we dove in before we really knew each other. The longest one lasted only 4 years. I met my present GF, Maria, who lives in the Philippines, a little over one year ago. We have had our ups and downs, mostly because of the different cultures, but we constantly become closer and closer. Were still looking at 3 to 6 years minimum before we can get her here, but if we can remain loyal and faithful to each other by choice, because of our love for each other, we'll really have it made when we do finally get to live under the same roof together. Feel and smell is the only things we are not able to experience at this time, we got all the rest, and thats good enough for us right now. The game is always changing as we get to know each other better and better. Recently I had to stop using words like angle face, sweetie, hon, babe,a the like, when talking to other women, and i've been talking like that for years to strangers, but it makes her uncomfortable, so I told her those words are just pleasentrys, and it was no problem to stop using them for her. I was also going to try to find a local lady to go riding with me occassionally, and be just friends with, because my landlady /best friend Geni can't always go riding when I can, and riding is more fun with a partner, someone to talk to, but that idea bothers Maria, so I have decided to bag the idea totally. I love Maria, and I don't ever what her to worry. Instead, I put a stereo on my trike, and I not lonely out there anymore in the forset by myself. I got all my favorite artists ridin with me now ! I see married couples, and BF/GF's splitting up all the time, and I think it's because they didnt't know each other well enough before they did the horizontal bop, and then their sexual excitement fogged their judgment. Blaw, what do I know, im just a stupid mechanic... At 55, I love my LDR with Maria, and I wouldn't trade my sweetie for anyone i've ever met in person. When we finally get together, we will know each other like a book, and I think thats what makes a relationship work. If you know everything, and your still together, you probably have a great chance of staying together forever. I can wait for the sex, i've already had more than my share in the past, and it never did me any favors. Im saving myself for Maria now. And if im too old for sex then, there's always tv and board games. We need love more than anything 
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I think I found the best alternative to this whole delema. OK, alot of relationships fail after some time, thats just a fact of life. My brother is on his 6th wife ! Yikes ! I tended to get bored with relationships in the past, and I think it's because we dove in before we really knew each other. The longest one lasted only 4 years. I met my present GF, Maria, who lives in the Philippines, a little over one year ago. We have had our ups and downs, mostly because of the different cultures, but we constantly become closer and closer. Were still looking at 3 to 6 years minimum before we can get her here, but if we can remain loyal and faithful to each other by choice, because of our love for each other, we'll really have it made when we do finally get to live under the same roof together. Feel and smell is the only things we are not able to experience at this time, we got all the rest, and thats good enough for us right now. The game is always changing as we get to know each other better and better. Recently I had to stop using words like angle face, sweetie, hon, babe,a the like, when talking to other women, and i've been talking like that for years to strangers, but it makes her uncomfortable, so I told her those words are just pleasentrys, and it was no problem to stop using them for her. I was also going to try to find a local lady to go riding with me occassionally, and be just friends with, because my landlady /best friend Geni can't always go riding when I can, and riding is more fun with a partner, someone to talk to, but that idea bothers Maria, so I have decided to bag the idea totally. I love Maria, and I don't ever what her to worry. Instead, I put a stereo on my trike, and I not lonely out there anymore in the forset by myself. I got all my favorite artists ridin with me now ! I see married couples, and BF/GF's splitting up all the time, and I think it's because they didnt't know each other well enough before they did the horizontal bop, and then their sexual excitement fogged their judgment. Blaw, what do I know, im just a stupid mechanic... At 55, I love my LDR with Maria, and I wouldn't trade my sweetie for anyone i've ever met in person. When we finally get together, we will know each other like a book, and I think thats what makes a relationship work. If you know everything, and your still together, you probably have a great chance of staying together forever. I can wait for the sex, i've already had more than my share in the past, and it never did me any favors. Im saving myself for Maria now. And if im too old for sex then, there's always tv and board games. We need love more than anything
Hey congratulations on finding someone nice! 
Good luck to you & Maria. Thanks for sharing that.
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There is nothing wrong with me. I just found that for know being single is best for me. I am too busy at this point in my life, especially for a new relationship.
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