Topic: Honestly is there anyone out there...
christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:22 PM

There are nice guys, there are jerks... There are nice women, there are b*tches... Life is what you make of it.. If you accept the behavior then that is what you will get... Personally, I don't accept that behavior nor do I have an issue being alone... I would rather be alone than in the wrong relationship and more than that if I were still 21 I would be having a kick azz time NOT looking for a relationship...

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:23 PM
venting is good.. for the soul

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:23 PM
Nice guys to the back of the line please noway laugh :wink: flowerforyou

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:24 PM
the line starts here..lol

hgraham88's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:26 PM

I turn 21 soon I can't wait and I'm not looking for a relationship just friends someone I can call to go out with. So far I've met a few who are soo sweet. I already told them I'm not about to jump in bed with them. Any man thats to be in bed with me has to wait 6 months of DATING before they get in these drawers. If thats too long then I kick em to the curb. Just stand your ground girlie make men respect you so your son will learn to respect women by your example!

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Mon 12/29/08 01:29 PM


I turn 21 soon I can't wait and I'm not looking for a relationship just friends someone I can call to go out with. So far I've met a few who are soo sweet. I already told them I'm not about to jump in bed with them. Any man thats to be in bed with me has to wait 6 months of DATING before they get in these drawers. If thats too long then I kick em to the curb. Just stand your ground girlie make men respect you so your son will learn to respect women by your example!

Oh believe me i stand my ground! lol im not looking for something quick but just knowing that there are people that would still like a relationhip is comforting

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:31 PM
Awww, your son is cute:smile:

As for the relationship thing, I know what you mean. All I see are guys that want " fun" and not a real relationship...it gets frustrated after awhile

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:32 PM



I turn 21 soon I can't wait and I'm not looking for a relationship just friends someone I can call to go out with. So far I've met a few who are soo sweet. I already told them I'm not about to jump in bed with them. Any man thats to be in bed with me has to wait 6 months of DATING before they get in these drawers. If thats too long then I kick em to the curb. Just stand your ground girlie make men respect you so your son will learn to respect women by your example!

Oh believe me i stand my ground! lol im not looking for something quick but just knowing that there are people that would still like a relationhip is comforting

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:33 PM
looking for miss right.. not miss right NOW!!!

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Mon 12/29/08 01:34 PM

That is looking for a RELATIONSHIP and not just a good time? Its ridiculous anymore... Noone takes the time anymore to actually get to know someone outside the bedroom. You talk to a guy and the first thing they want to talk about is when your going to sleep together. I will be 21 years old in a week I have a 15 month old son and I can say I have never truly been on a date. Anyone you meet is just looking for fun not the complications of a relationship! Sorry people more venting here than anything oops


It's hard to find anyone decent -- all I can say is don't ever rush into anything, and anybody who tries to rush you into anything is not someone you need.

Relationships take time -- I've been here two years and have yet to run into a real relationship prospect -- but if I ever do find one, you can bet I'll be taking my time with that situation....







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Mon 12/29/08 01:36 PM


That is looking for a RELATIONSHIP and not just a good time? Its ridiculous anymore... Noone takes the time anymore to actually get to know someone outside the bedroom. You talk to a guy and the first thing they want to talk about is when your going to sleep together. I will be 21 years old in a week I have a 15 month old son and I can say I have never truly been on a date. Anyone you meet is just looking for fun not the complications of a relationship! Sorry people more venting here than anything oops


It's hard to find anyone decent -- all I can say is don't ever rush into anything, and anybody who tries to rush you into anything is not someone you need.

Relationships take time -- I've been here two years and have yet to run into a real relationship prospect -- but if I ever do find one, you can bet I'll be taking my time with that situation....








Mr_Music's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:36 PM

looking for miss right.. not miss right NOW!!!


The trouble with that is, she always neglects to tell you her first name is Always.

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:36 PM
wow 2 years??? hmmm that kinda scared me

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:37 PM

wow 2 years??? hmmm that kinda scared me

christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:38 PM
ur exactly right mr music

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Mon 12/29/08 01:39 PM

wow 2 years??? hmmm that kinda scared me


Well -- in all fairness, I'm extremely selective, you might say....!



christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:39 PM


wow 2 years??? hmmm that kinda scared me


Well -- in all fairness, I'm extremely selective, you might say....!




christian4u's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:40 PM
welol its good not to settle i just know when its right i will know it

Mayhem_J's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:44 PM

Nice guys to the back of the line please noway laugh :wink: flowerforyou


To the waaaaay back.

hgraham88's photo
Mon 12/29/08 01:54 PM



I turn 21 soon I can't wait and I'm not looking for a relationship just friends someone I can call to go out with. So far I've met a few who are soo sweet. I already told them I'm not about to jump in bed with them. Any man thats to be in bed with me has to wait 6 months of DATING before they get in these drawers. If thats too long then I kick em to the curb. Just stand your ground girlie make men respect you so your son will learn to respect women by your example!

Oh believe me i stand my ground! lol im not looking for something quick but just knowing that there are people that would still like a relationhip is comforting


Good for you Dollface! The guy I went out with last night told me that if we were to get in a relationship he would wait as long as I WANTED TOO. So hold your head up high hunny u'll find the right one!