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I know I am confusing... Ok... this is how I put it... I am still dating but I go on date with no expections of anything... the only expectation would be to make a friend... if there is something more than friendship great, but the reasoning behind approaching it as friends, is to weed out the @sses that expect more such as sexual advances. I always pay on the first date and I don't expect anything. Everything over a goodnight is a bonus. |
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 He who asks for the date......PAYS!!! Period!!! He is paying to take you out and impress you. Let him........go with it!!! |
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friendly dinner = split bill
romantic date (he asks you out) = guy pays  romantic date (you ask him out) = girl pays
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well it depends, the guy usually will pick up the check, and a decent guy wont expect anything for it, but if the girl is thinking she jus wants to be friends, an offer to split the check would be appropriate, but should be denied in my opinion What he said  I actually have a couple of male friends that I regularly dine with so often that you'd think we were dating (though we're not and never will do so)... I ALWAYS offer to either split the cheque or to alternate paying ("you got the last one, I'll take this one").... but both guy friends ALWAYS deny my offer... With my bf... he simply always pays and has asked me not to offer.... so hey, who am I to argue?  |
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Ok, I was talking about expectations with a possible date... so... here's the question... Is there expectations when a guy picks up the check? Can there be no expectations on a date, besides making a new friend? If there a date is approached as friends, should the guy still pick up the check? Or should the bill be split? Now keep in mind, it is a DATE, but going into it with as little expectations as possible. I'm old fashioned. A gentleman picks up the check, with no expectations. |
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Ok, I was talking about expectations with a possible date... so... here's the question... Is there expectations when a guy picks up the check? Can there be no expectations on a date, besides making a new friend? If there a date is approached as friends, should the guy still pick up the check? Or should the bill be split? Now keep in mind, it is a DATE, but going into it with as little expectations as possible. I'm old fashioned. A gentleman picks up the check, with no expectations. 
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Great topic...
First of all in my opinion if it is a first date there are no expectations and I honestly don't want an expensive first date. I also would offer to pay my share of the date. Now if I am casually dating I will always offer to pay my way. If that is refused I will then make the next offer of an outing and insist on treating him. If he refuses well he might not be getting another one since dating can be expensive. Now if I am in a relationship I think both should be paying. I won't be ever be obligated by some guy buying me dinner to give him sex. There is no dinner out there that is equal to me and my body. I give that freely at the right time..Can't be bought and GAWD help the poor guy that think it can be. did I see Black Angus somewhere in here one of my favorites Rib eye with king crab legs... Yummm |
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If the dinner runs you more than $50, she owes you sex. It's in the rules. There's a few places here that are $250.00 a plate So you wanna go to dinner $250.00 a plate??!!  Just give me the money and let me buy groceries for the next 3 months!
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