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Topic: When is it wrong to love?
PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 12/28/08 05:55 PM
When is it wrong to love? It's wrong to love when you simply don't know what "love" is. Many people SAY they love when what they're actually feeling is infatuation. Love takes time... infatuation is instant. I believe that many people have no idea what love in but I knew the minute I saw my husband and if what he told his XO it was mutual.

lacedwithinsanity Joined Sun 12/28/08 Posts: 25	Sun 12/28/08 06:51 PM
When they're married with kids

agrant333 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 1762	Sun 12/28/08 06:56 PM
No given time?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 12:17 AM
No given time?

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Mon 12/29/08 12:29 AM
Love is never wrong in any situation as long as it's real love and not lust or anything like that. If you really love someone, then you won't look somewhere else for love. Although if you are married, you need to love the one you are with!

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Mon 12/29/08 05:39 AM
When you love to control; whether that control is for benevolent reasons or not.

2Btrue2One Joined Wed 06/13/07 Posts: 2447	Mon 12/29/08 05:54 AM
It's never wrong to love, but somtimes it can hurt so deeply when it isn't returned, love is ingrained in us, and unfortunately it can hurt very bad at times, but the good thing about being hurt is you learn from it, and it makes you stronger.. just my 2 cents

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Mon 12/29/08 06:58 AM
It's not wrong to love it's when you love the wrong way that it's not good. Loving is you and you alone that controls it, you can only decide who you love not who loves you. It is ok to love everyone just matter the level of love you give each. It is wrong to love when your dependent on love. Love is your to give only not yours to ask.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Mon 12/29/08 07:03 AM
When they're married with kids Ouch!

It_Gyrl Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 225	Mon 12/29/08 10:35 AM
When you're extremely young and Mary Kay Letourneau or Debra Lafave have their eye on you

Unknow Joined Sun 08/17/08 Posts: 3675	Mon 12/29/08 09:42 PM
When they are already taken and not available or all based on an illusion or lies.

Averageguy1964 Joined Fri 12/05/08 Posts: 1710	Mon 12/29/08 09:45 PM
Never wrong to Love.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/25/09 05:52 PM
When you think with your weiner

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/25/09 05:55 PM
When they're married with kids

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Wed 03/25/09 06:38 PM
When is it wrong to love? When the other person chooses not to love you.

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Wed 03/25/09 06:42 PM
When is it wrong to love? When it's with a sheep

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Wed 03/25/09 06:49 PM
Anytime. Never allow yourself to fall into that trap.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/25/09 06:50 PM
When is it wrong to love? When the other person chooses not to love you.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Wed 03/25/09 06:55 PM
When your sickness (for example codependency) assists in their sickness (for example addiction). It is a recipe for pain and suffering in the name of love.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/25/09 06:55 PM
When is it wrong to love? When it's with a sheep