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Topic: sex and love
Autumn_queen Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 444	Sat 12/27/08 10:23 PM
There is a difference between sex and love, BUT can the line be blurred sometimes?

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Sat 12/27/08 10:24 PM
It can be if the people don't know exactly what they wanted in the first place, or if it has been a long sex thing and someone changes their position on the other without saying anything.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 12/27/08 10:26 PM
There is a difference between sex and love, BUT can the line be blurred sometimes? There is usually a lot of sex in the early stages of a relationship and this causes the line to get blurred.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sat 12/27/08 10:34 PM
There is a difference between sex and love, BUT can the line be blurred sometimes? There is usually a lot of sex in the early stages of a relationship and this causes the line to get blurred. yes, i agree, and if it grows exponentially with communication, and one or the other doesn't self-sabatoge, then there's a good chance for love to blossom

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sat 12/27/08 10:35 PM
Sex in a relationship is a maker or a breaker.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Sat 12/27/08 10:36 PM
There is a difference between sex and love, BUT can the line be blurred sometimes? There is usually a lot of sex in the early stages of a relationship and this causes the line to get blurred. yes, i agree, and if it grows exponentially with communication, and one or the other doesn't self-sabatoge, then there's a good chance for love to blossom Agreeing on both parties.

lnghntr Joined Sun 08/03/08 Posts: 1618	Sat 12/27/08 10:50 PM
only if yer drunk..lol

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Sun 12/28/08 06:01 AM
Are you talking about the act of having sex versus making love or versus being in love. Having sex is only the act for the physical pleasure no emotions included. Making love is the act of sex with someone you have deep emotion for and the sharing of your love through the physical act. Being in love is loving your partner whatever what (sex or no sex)it's thinking of them first, wanting them to be happy , listening to them, sharing your experiences, and all of that. Having sex is good but having sex (making love) with the one you love is out of this world. This is my point of you.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Sun 12/28/08 06:06 AM
There is a difference between sex and love, BUT can the line be blurred sometimes? Sure it can and that where in the problem lies. Women tend to view sex in terms of emotional commitment and men, biologically speaking, simply dont.

Autumn_queen Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 444	Sun 12/28/08 06:11 AM
Are you talking about the act of having sex versus making love or versus being in love. Having sex is only the act for the physical pleasure no emotions included. Making love is the act of sex with someone you have deep emotion for and the sharing of your love through the physical act. Being in love is loving your partner whatever what (sex or no sex)it's thinking of them first, wanting them to be happy , listening to them, sharing your experiences, and all of that. Having sex is good but having sex (making love) with the one you love is out of this world. This is my point of you. I like your point, but i am really talking about things like when a relationship based of casual sex starts to blur and the two people can actual fall in love...if that can actually occur.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Sun 12/28/08 06:14 AM
I like your point, but i am really talking about things like when a relationship based of casual sex starts to blur and the two people can actual fall in love...if that can actually occur. Yes it can. This is often the case when two people have sex with the intent that it shall remain as platonic and a "friends with benefits" situation. Unless boundaries are clearly defined before the initiation of sexual intercourse, one or the other party is bound to develop stronger feelings in the realm of the romantic.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 12/28/08 06:15 AM
Just my perspective..... There is a time and a place for both. There is a definite need for a deep and spiritually intrinsic love that is based on an emotional connection to fulfill the soul. Then again, there is also a time for Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx. Speaking of which...Good morning Krimsa and all you lovely ladies....hehehehehehe

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 12/28/08 06:21 AM
Yes, I will never be able to separate the two. I tried and it didn't work. Now I have an EB.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 12/28/08 06:22 AM
Just my perspective..... There is a time and a place for both. There is a definite need for a deep and spiritually intrinsic love that is based on an emotional connection to fulfill the soul. Then again, there is also a time for Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx. Speaking of which...Good morning Krimsa and all you lovely ladies....hehehehehehe Why can't you have "Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx" with someone you love?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 12/28/08 06:28 AM
Just my perspective..... There is a time and a place for both. There is a definite need for a deep and spiritually intrinsic love that is based on an emotional connection to fulfill the soul. Then again, there is also a time for Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx. Speaking of which...Good morning Krimsa and all you lovely ladies....hehehehehehe Why can't you have "Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx" with someone you love? Oh, you can....I just have a hard time concentrating on the love aspect when she is yelling "Spank me harder!"

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Sun 12/28/08 06:30 AM
Just my perspective..... There is a time and a place for both. There is a definite need for a deep and spiritually intrinsic love that is based on an emotional connection to fulfill the soul. Then again, there is also a time for Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx. Speaking of which...Good morning Krimsa and all you lovely ladies....hehehehehehe Why can't you have "Up against the wall, Cro-mag, covered with sweat, your hair all messed up...sexxx" with someone you love? Oh, you can....I just have a hard time concentrating on the love aspect when she is yelling "Spank me harder!"

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 12/28/08 06:31 AM
Oh, you can....I just have a hard time concentrating on the love aspect when she is yelling "Spank me harder!" Well, I agree. No one is thinking about love when the sex gets like that. But, I can't get to the "fun stuff" of sex until I feel a deep emotional attachment. I guess it's all about emotional security. Once I feel a certain level of that.....let the games begin.

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Sun 12/28/08 07:20 AM
I can't have sex unless I have feelings for her so a platonic and a "friends with benefits" sex situation is not for me.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 12/28/08 07:31 AM
I think that you have to posess feeling's for the other to begin with for sex to develope into love. Otherwise, it's pointless, cheap, shallow, meaningless. And, you're never going to really enjoy it too much.