If you haven't heard from a friend who was supposed to call you, do you call them up and ask what's wrong or just let it go?

Let it go, they will tell me when they are ready

Find out what their problem is.

I'd call to make sure they were alright

Because you are a sweetheart

I would probably call, just to see what happened to them!! I feel I'd owe it to myself to "check", maybe they were in an accident or something!! You never can tell!

hunt them down and punish them.

I'm likely to call and ask what happened. I do get pretty worried if I don't hear from someone who said they will call me on a certain day. As long as they are alright, then that's what matters to me.

i believe i would just let it go. People are so busy now-a-days they may even forget sometimes.--that's what i have found.

Let it go

Depends on how close I am to that person & how the situation was left the last time...

I finally met in person an "internet friend" (after 19mos of chatting) who acted like an ass when he was here. A few days later, he must've accidentally hit the wrong number on his speed dial...when I answered he said "Oh! I gotta call you back!" I haven't heard from him since...

I'll wait for him to call back...or forget him...whichever comes first...

the first few times I call after that fk em

Yes, by all means do so.

A family friend just called to tell us SHE died in Abilene, TX 4 days ago.

She is mad as all get-out because the Medics Resusitated her.

(She has a DNR somewhere in her car, which is always loaded with her clothes and junk.)

Go figure....

Go after them and ask, " What the hell!!"

Or if it's a guy go after them and remember to hit the brakes

I would call them and make sure they're ok, and then ***** em out.

i'm not into games, i'm just there, and they'll understand why i'll call. when dating is of no consequence, rules change.....i like the new rules. pure communication!

evaluate how much actual history you have with said person, the nature, and relationship, professional/personal ,
how clear were the agreements,
how obvious is the avoidance.

call. email. maybe even notify local authorities if you know they are in any way a health risk, find out if anyone you know in common knows how they are.

if avoidance is obvious, that is a message in itself.
my call is to respect that, for a reasonable period, and i have to admit i would like to know that any person i shared myself intimately with , would have the respect for me as well to give some communication, even if to say they had no words.

sometimes life is overwhelming in ways we are unprepared for, sometimes we surprise ourselves as we wake up one morning and don't recognize who is looking back in the mirror, we don't want to expose someone we love to our own internal confusion...no excuses ...it just happens...it's plainly human.

Very thoughtful advice

Yeah, she's good!



Perhaps I should call her.

good idea