Topic: What do you think of someone who has 2 profiles up?
cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:03 AM
I have been chatting with someone... pretty seriously, and I think they actually have 2 profiles up here on Mingle.

I was getting to actually like this person and they had mentioned meeting in person. Supposedly they are all in to honesty and no games... so this kind of took me by surprise to come across it...

Neither profile has a picture...

I had asked for one, because I usually do not really talk to people without a photo except for hi or such. He said he didn't have one currently but would get one soon... So I am probably the fool once again I am to assume? I did leave a message on the second profile asking if it was him... LOL


FETTS61's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:05 AM

I have been chatting with someone... pretty seriously, and I think they actually have 2 profiles up here on Mingle.

I was getting to actually like this person and they had mentioned meeting in person. Supposedly they are all in to honesty and no games... so this kind of took me by surprise to come across it...

Neither profile has a picture...

I had asked for one, because I usually do not really talk to people without a photo except for hi or such. He said he didn't have one currently but would get one soon... So I am probably the fool once again I am to assume? I did leave a message on the second profile asking if it was him... LOL


ive got 3
one for each personalityscared

hellkitten54's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:07 AM
For one, it is against the rules to have two profiles. I would report him.

cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:07 AM
Edited by cityblues21 on Fri 12/26/08 11:08 AM
Really? Well I guess I learn something new everyday... I would just think a person would update or edit their profile... ohwell

hellkitten54's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:08 AM
Plus it sounds like he may not be too sure of himself, and no pictures in this day and age? I wouldn't trust him.

no photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:10 AM
they lead a double life and hoping a wasted individual want notice..........

polaritybear's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:11 AM
My puppy has a profile so technically I dont have two.

cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:11 AM
Well he is a bit tech challenged I believe... :smile: Maybe that is why he has two, he didn't know any better... I don't know... but if it is him on both I am definetely going to say something about it... next time he comes on... LOL

scoundrel's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:12 AM
I am sure that 90% of the people on here have profiles on other sites. I think that they do.
So, if they have two or three files here, it is not an issue.
Your investment of getting interested in a person without a current picture--taken inside the prison--is a concern.
Okay?:wink:

no photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:14 AM
there you haveit... honesty and trust you feel he may have ( but your not absolutlysure) another profile... (trust issues) and he says no picture avaiable? BS.. with todays tecnology even a second grader can down load a pic... so is he honest with you.. my suuggestion is when in doubt.......run:banana:

freeonthree's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:16 AM
I could see a person coming back and not remembering their log in info, and creating another account, but in that case, the 1st acct would not be visible, so thats out.

cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:18 AM
By investment... We just seemed to have a lot in common... No I have not committed myself...
Thanks for all points of view... will take those into consideration. I am pretty cautious by nature, so just needed some confirmation.


crystalchef's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:18 AM
I am sorry you can not really totally dig this person if you have never seen a picture stick to your old routine of only looking at pros with pictures plus the rest of us who put pictures and actually fill the profiles out are serious about it he must not truelly want to find someone if he can not get a picture on there and second if your already haveing problems and doubts b4 you see him dont you think thats a sign to next him hehehee Best of wishes!

cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:21 AM

I could see a person coming back and not remembering their log in info, and creating another account, but in that case, the 1st acct would not be visible, so thats out.




Would not be visible? To whom? Anybody or the actual person who created the profile? If it was not ever deactivated...

Because the other profile sounds like it is quite a bit older...

Riding_Dubz's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:23 AM
surprised ROT ROOOOOOOO SCOOBYsurprised


scared scared scared scared scared scared

Peekinin's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:27 AM
~WARNING~~WARNING~Will Robinson!!!!!!!!!scared shocked whoa spock

I have a hard enough time with the one profile on here,,

why would I want to torture myself with a second,,?

Unless of course,,,

1. I'm a liar and a cheat

or

2. I believe in the "doublemint" theory,,,"two are better than one"

In any case, I see double profiling as a BIG RED FLAG,,and agree with HK,,,no excuse for no picgrumble noway frustrated

cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:28 AM

surprised ROT ROOOOOOOO SCOOBYsurprised


scared scared scared scared scared scared



Yeah... I get it, I was a stupid... frown


Peekinin's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:32 AM
noooooooo,,your weren't "stupid" sweety,,,,

sometimes we want it so bad, we'll believe anything that steps in front of us,,,

Being a "mere mortal" myself, I can say, "been there, done that",,

But I know better now,,,:wink:

Peace


cityblues21's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:59 AM
Well anyways thanks for everyone's input... I think I am going to just back off of this site for awhile and gather my wits once again...

Everyone have a great new year and I hope everyone truly finds what or whoever they are looking for... flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/26/08 12:27 PM
If they refuse to put up a pic or send you a pic then it's a big red flag in my book.