Sorry don't want to look like Jim Carrey in Lair Lair.

Damn good point. I guess at times I can't think up too much but Hi how's it going, nice photos etc.

Point well taken.

Welcome to the way of the world.

If your not tall, a bad boy, or what is commercially concidered as "Hot" then your unwanted.

The only time the rule dosen't apply is if you have:

A: Money, and even then unless you rich enough to keep them happy and keep buying things they will eventually leave you for some one else after they get what they want.

B: Hook ups or connnections to get them something they want ro to get them out of an issue that they are in. Once they get that their gone.

You have to look, act or be a certain way of your nothing. The thought process is that if they think, or your ugly by the world says it is then your and emberassment to been seen with.

Men have the issue, and women have the issue, and its all because movies and t.v dictate how we should look and act. And because of that that is what everyone wants. Dating sites are even worse because you can send someone an e-mail and they reject you on the way you look most of the time. won't even take a few menutes every once in a while just to send you an e-mail to try to get to know you.

Its sad, because you never know that the person you refused to talk to because they were too short, or too tall, or didn't have the right hair color, or weres glasses, or any other number of pathatic B.S. reasons could have been the one that made you happy for the rest of your life.

I know I, along with numberious others on this site, deal with it everyday.

But I'm short and Fugly, according to some reply e-mails I've recieved, So its to be expected.

i would..............

You're a good looking man. Perhap's with your "note's" being so short, you are being percieved as not caring enough to say more. I have no friggen idea what I'm talkin about! lol Sh!T, I'd reply to you.

bagel girl yur sweetie.!!!!!

See now seahawks, that could have been a great email to her!

I guess I always been more of a short to the point kind of guy ( Person ) one that might not always have a whole lot to say but always willing to talk when ever I can think up more to say.

I mean damn most every women knows she hot / good looking etc, besides she has it all that most guys want and she knows it.

I don't know I guess I need to buy one of them damn books for dummies to think of more to say vs one worders .

Let me tell you something. We women DO NOT think that we have you tiger's by the tail. I for one am so scared of rejection. For me, it's allway's been...the more I liked a guy, the more I clamed up. The more shy I got. It's not so easy for all of us. You're not alone.

okay.

I know I am a really shy laid back guy but once I get to know any one person I warm up quickly, I at times though have trouble thinking up what to say really qucikly so women will respond back to me.

I know I am not no Will Smith or any body like that good lookin etc.

old enough to be her dad, then she would have emailed the cops.!!!!

Yeah....That happens...

All I know is, if I didn't have you by 19 year's.........I'd be hitting you up. Especially if you lived closer.

Really ? That's really nice of you to say.

I'm not scared...of anything!!! HA HA HA HA

I'm confused what that has to do with anything I had posed.

I am not scared, I said lol

lol gotca ya.