yep

I think that everyone makes mistakes and if you trusted them to begin
with one mistake shouldn't crucify them. I don't think there's ever an
"excuse" but I also believe in second chances. Not third or fiftieth
just a second chance.

cheating comes in different forms. its still hard to ansewer that.

yup can be, until your in it your right.

different forms?

is it less cheating in another form?

Just got a mail from someone on another site.

His wife of many years is ill.. has arthritis... he still has sex, just
not as frequent as he'd like.
WTF?!

sickening.

There is never an excuse for cheating as it will always end up hurting
someone for the sake of your ego and self gratification.

No, never an excuse...huh-uh..noway!!!!

i beleive u should never be with another person when u are with someone,
if it gets that bad that u can't take it, then u should let the person
know, and talk about it, if u have to sleep with someone, then u got to
tell ur mate, and let them decide what they want to do, i dont consider
ity cheating anymore if the other party is aware, and its over before u
do it

There is a reason why it is called cheating. Granted life is not black
in white. Sometimes, there isn't any right or wrong, but as stated
above there is a reason why it is called cheating.

You have made a committment to another person. If you are not able to
honer it, then by all means, break the relationship off so the other
person is free to look for love elsewhere. You have the choice of
either honoring the committment or ending the relationship. When you
cheat, your are simply being selfish and not thinking of anyone, but
yourself.

All one really has in this life is their Honor and to be a dishonorable
peace of crap to cheat one some one you "care about" for a pice of ass
is sad at best.........

Wells, said iRon!

Ok this is kinda a touchy subject for me, the last person i dated, my
fiance, cheated on me, after i went away to go back to school(only an
hours drive away from him), so I don't believe there is any excuse. You
have an option to be in a relationship, if it's not what you want, you
need to say you want out. Don't cheat! I believe that you have a
person's trust until you do something to **** it up. Then it's gone, no
getting it back, not fully anyways. The only thing worse than a cheat
is a cheater who tries to lie about it after they've been brought out,
esp when you walk in on it happening.

some people call it cheating and others dont. it all depends on what
happened leading up to it.

ive bin tested many times in relationships, proud to say ive never
cheated.

4fun, can you give me an instance where you think it would be ok to
cheat, because i totally disagree with you, if you haven't broken the
relationship off then it's wrong.

Angel...usually cheating is because of some "lack" somewhere, sexual,
emotional,etc. I do not believe ther is a reasonable excuse, however
there are many reasons people do..I cannot understand however why anyone
would if they truly loved.

NO! id be really if
someone cheated on me and they gave me a nasty disease.

I've lived it being done to me also,,and,,,Once a
cheater,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,always a cheater,,,or
at least,,,,they will "THINK" they CAN,,,,AGAIN!!!!

No one is PERFECT,,,but some THINGS,,,,should NEVER be TRIED!

And CHEATING to ME is SLEEPING with someone else,,,,,NOT
Just flirting or a KISS,,,,,,

Some folks call "THAT" cheating??

Different forms as far as people and how some may deal with it
differently then other.




Yes.


N,o one said it is right but some people choose to live with it there is
no black and white on all matters, of llife.