Topic: Im very shy
yungNmiserable's photo
Wed 12/24/08 11:47 PM
Im very shy and i tend to have trouble approaching girls/women(what ever it is you like to be called)! I kinda lock up and it seems like i wanna stutter haha but i just kinda mumble when i talk to one! Any one got any advice for me on how i can come onto women and not seem retarded?

Peccy's photo
Wed 12/24/08 11:51 PM
Buy a helmet, then they'll understand.

yungNmiserable's photo
Wed 12/24/08 11:52 PM
thanks for the help that really seems to make me understand!

twofotey's photo
Wed 12/24/08 11:55 PM
Try NOT coming onto them. Ask them lots of nice questions about them, and for gods sakes dont ask them if they like you. People wont care about you until they know how much you care about them. Besides if they are busy answering questions about themselves then they wont have time to notice how insecure you are.

Megan_Smiles's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:00 AM

Try NOT coming onto them. Ask them lots of nice questions about them, and for gods sakes dont ask them if they like you. People wont care about you until they know how much you care about them. Besides if they are busy answering questions about themselves then they wont have time to notice how insecure you are.




Great answer

twofotey's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:05 AM
Thank you! and Merry X-mas

DHinkle's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:08 AM

Im very shy and i tend to have trouble approaching girls/women(what ever it is you like to be called)! I kinda lock up and it seems like i wanna stutter haha but i just kinda mumble when i talk to one! Any one got any advice for me on how i can come onto women and not seem retarded?


be confident in urself man, i had the same problem, concentrate on them not how u think ur doin, theyll notice they have ur full attention

yungNmiserable's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:10 AM
Thanks yeah like i have been told im good at listenin so thats usually all i do! THen when it comes my turn to talk i mumble!

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Thu 12/25/08 12:10 AM


Try NOT coming onto them. Ask them lots of nice questions about them, and for gods sakes dont ask them if they like you. People wont care about you until they know how much you care about them. Besides if they are busy answering questions about themselves then they wont have time to notice how insecure you are.




Great answer


I Concur

DHinkle's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:12 AM

Thanks yeah like i have been told im good at listenin so thats usually all i do! THen when it comes my turn to talk i mumble!


dont think about wat she thinks of you, jus be confident in wat u are. if that isnt good enough she isnt good enough

yungNmiserable's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:17 AM
well its i work at a mall as a security guard and see girls all day long! And i guess if ima work there i needa know how to talk to one without lockin up!

DHinkle's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:19 AM
just relax and dont think about wat to say, jus let the words come ur freezin cause ur thinkin way to much

yungNmiserable's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:19 AM
aight thanks! I used to go out to the club alot and my friends would always get a girl and i would just be standin there haha cause i couldnt talk!

DHinkle's photo
Thu 12/25/08 12:21 AM
no prob. man jus breath an be urself

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:12 AM
try taking an acting class and learning how to express yourself. Read a lot so you have something to talk about. If you ask too many questions people are going to think you work for a newspaper or are a cop.