Topic: Is it possible to be in love with a stranger?
BLAKSTAR's photo
Thu 12/25/08 10:58 AM
I FELL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE AT FIRST SIGHT WE DATED FOR AWHILE BUT IT DID'NT WORK OUT, BUT I STILL LOVR HER TO THIS DAY....
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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/26/08 07:10 PM

I FELL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE AT FIRST SIGHT WE DATED FOR AWHILE BUT IT DID'NT WORK OUT, BUT I STILL LOVR HER TO THIS DAY....
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BertDCaveman's photo
Fri 12/26/08 07:11 PM
Well we have Brothels in Nevada

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 12/26/08 07:23 PM
No... I can only speak for myself but that wouldnt' be possible for me to do.

OpenArms36's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:58 AM

smittenIs it possible to love or be in love with a stranger (someone you haven't talked to but every time you see that person, you just know that you already love him/her and it's not infatuation)?:heart:
Jesus, yes. Another human being, no.

no photo
Sat 12/27/08 11:47 AM
You'll risk everything....and I do mean EVERYTHING....if you do.

No guarantees. Proceed at your own risk.

Jhavez's photo
Sat 12/27/08 12:00 PM
Like? Yes. Love? No

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sat 12/27/08 12:17 PM
pure infatuation.

no photo
Mon 12/29/08 02:02 PM
Edited by work2live247 on Mon 12/29/08 02:03 PM
No.

Image will fade. You love the sleek image, like I love my shiney macbook pro, but when the next generation model comes around, I will love that one more, and toss the old one.

Learning and discovering your partner will grow your love. You have learn things like how does he/she react to a situation like bad customer service? What are his/her ambitions? What makes him/her tick? What gives him/her strength? What does he/she do to make you feel happy? What does he/she do to comfort you when you are down? What does he/she do to dissipate arguments? What does he/she do to spontaneously energize the relationship? What does he/she do to make you feel loved?

Can you answer all those by just looking at an image? I think, not. BTW, I was in love with Pam Andersn after her centerfold release, but all went out the door as soon as she started to talk. So, no. Cant fall in love with a stranger, without further communications and meetings.

cityblues21's photo
Mon 12/29/08 02:37 PM
I think so... but the level is different...no real depth... in love with the idea that this person would be perfect in every way...could be perfect in every way... and if you never meet... your mind would hold on to that imaginative concept of what you think they are. You only see a few pieces that are showing and the human brain automatically fills in the missing info... with the desired outcome. Your heart can race when you think of them...

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 12/29/08 03:24 PM
Sure! Eva LaRue is madly, head-over-heels in love with me!

She just doesn't know it yet.

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Mon 12/29/08 09:36 PM



smittenIs it possible to love or be in love with a stranger (someone you haven't talked to but every time you see that person, you just know that you already love him/her and it's not infatuation)?:heart:


No. You fall in love with the imaginary person you create that person to be. The person gets built up in the mind all out of perportion to whom the person really is. You fall in love with that person and it's a heart break to find out the person isn't who you imagined him or her to be.
flowerforyou So very trueflowerforyou


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Averageguy1964's photo
Mon 12/29/08 09:48 PM
That would be Lust not Love

no photo
Mon 12/29/08 09:57 PM
It's possible to have feelings, but not love.

citygurl's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:00 PM
Does puppy love count ? smitten

Daybrightener's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:03 PM
I think you can. Back in the day when people only had written mail more than one man/woman fell in love with the opposite based on what they wrote in a letter.

Love is an action and a state of being.

I like the idea of long term communicating via old fashioned pen and paper mail but then again I love the immediacy of todays instantaneous communicating.

steelneyes's photo
Mon 12/29/08 10:09 PM
Bonded by trauma or circumstance but not in love.

keepthehope's photo
Mon 12/29/08 11:35 PM
I don't know. I think maybe you can fall in love with what you think they are, but until you know for sure then, I don't think it will last long.

Strange's photo
Tue 12/30/08 01:16 AM
Sometimes

s1owhand's photo
Tue 12/30/08 02:25 AM

smittenIs it possible to love or be in love with a stranger (someone you haven't talked to but every time you see that person, you just know that you already love him/her and it's not infatuation)?:heart:


you have to ignore the staples in the middle of the page!!