Topic: Rating....scary.
causality's photo
Tue 12/23/08 06:31 AM
I really need to know whether my current looks will cut it in the dating world. I've been off the market for quite a while now. I have horrible insecurity issues, but I am bracing for the worst. Any comments on how I could improve the profile would also be awesome.

May777's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:13 AM
hi,..

profile reads great,..maybe just add a few more pics and start mingling,.. drinker

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:14 AM
Hmmmm. I'd put up more pics. The "hard to understand" thing.... you might want to re-phrase that part. It came off as rather, umm, condescending. happy

Good luck to you....flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:17 AM
yes more pics on there might help

causality's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:43 AM
thanks for the tips. I uploaded some older pics. (I didn't have any newer ones.) I also took out the bit about being hard to understand. and then i added the interest "pot"

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:49 AM
Well, that's good. If your favorite time is 4:20 you should be up front, so that the folks who don't like that can know right away. Or vice versa....

causality's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:58 AM
Two things I've learned from the relationships I have been in:

1)Always be up front. Even if it hurts your chances. Better being completely honest from the beginning.

2)Communication is to a relationship what water is to a rose in the desert.

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:27 AM
2) huh, roses don't grow in deserts they die. I don't get it

causality's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:28 AM
right. If a rose was growing in the desert, it would need water so badly it is not funny. Relationships need as much communication between the two people, as a rose would need water in the desert.

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:36 AM
just tell her what you really mean its a lot easier :) lets talk seems to work quite well

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 08:38 AM
I actually like analogies... it shows a person has abstract and critical thinking skills. That tends to illustrate intelligence.

Concrete= not attractive.

But that's just me.