Topic: Would you go out with an alcoholic?
Sexyklp4U's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:21 PM

I accidentally did. He hid it well at first. grumble


oh yeh..i know..they r pretty cleavernoway laugh but it catches up to them sooner or later

Sexyklp4U's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:23 PM


can i change the question a little bit?
(Lee)


what if the person is in recovery and is happy and doing the right thing? would u date a recovering alcoholic?:smile:
bigsmile yesbigsmile


coolbigsmile believe it or not..alot of people wont even date them if they r in recovery..they r affraid they will relaspenoway well thats just a chance u have to take..and if the recovering alcoholic/addict is doing the right thing, chances of relaspe r second to none

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Mon 12/22/08 05:32 PM
no waydrinker drinker drinks cheers lol!

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Mon 12/22/08 05:39 PM

drinks Would you go out with an alcoholic?drinksWhy or why not?drinks
No. Cause I don't want to get mixed with one. A recovered one, yes.

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Mon 12/22/08 05:40 PM

im with tina...lol
can I watch ?? :tongue:

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Mon 12/22/08 05:41 PM



can i change the question a little bit?
(Lee)


what if the person is in recovery and is happy and doing the right thing? would u date a recovering alcoholic?:smile:
bigsmile yesbigsmile


coolbigsmile believe it or not..alot of people wont even date them if they r in recovery..they r affraid they will relaspenoway well thats just a chance u have to take..and if the recovering alcoholic/addict is doing the right thing, chances of relaspe r second to none
bigsmile this is true,if they have someone who truly care's it make's a diff so yes:heart: alcohol is like drug's perscrip or not everyone deserves a second chanceflowers drinks

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Mon 12/22/08 05:47 PM
An active alcoholic? Someone with no desire to change?

No, I wouldn't. Why?

Do I want to lose all I have worked for? No.

Do I want to lose my friends and family? No.

Lose my health? No.

Do I want to lose my job and good name? No.

Do I want to worry about the stupid mistakes they'd make....
infidelity....risk disease....end up in jail....in fights
....car accidents....breaking the law? No.

Would they set a good example for the tender hearted and impressionable? No.

Do I want to spend countless nights and maybe days alone....while they nurse their "best friend and mistress"? No.

Do I want to watch them get sick, whither away, and die? No.

Do I want to nurse an invalid who knew better than that? No.

Would I want to deal with all the lies and deceit? No.

Do I deserve better? YES!!!!



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Mon 12/22/08 05:48 PM

....I don't want to date someone with addictions other than sex

Be careful what you wish for. Google it. Its NOT what you think.

Sexyklp4U's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:49 PM


....I don't want to date someone with addictions other than sex

Be careful what you wish for. Google it. Its NOT what you think.



very true..an addiction is an addiction..doesnt matter what it is..can mess your life up!!

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Mon 12/22/08 05:49 PM

An active alcoholic? Someone with no desire to change?

No, I wouldn't. Why?

Do I want to lose all I have worked for? No.

Do I want to lose my friends and family? No.

Lose my health? No.

Do I want to lose my job and good name? No.

Do I want to worry about the stupid mistakes they'd make....
infidelity....risk disease....end up in jail....in fights
....car accidents....breaking the law? No.

Would they set a good example for the tender hearted and impressionable? No.

Do I want to spend countless nights and maybe days alone....while they nurse their "best friend and mistress"? No.

Do I want to watch them get sick, whither away, and die? No.

Do I want to nurse an invalid who knew better than that? No.

Would I want to deal with all the lies and deceit? No.

Do I deserve better? YES!!!!



sounds like a voice of experience..

alonenotlonely's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:49 PM

I think not because I don't want to date someone with addictions other than sex


I like that answer and it's my only addiction, which I fight.

Not alcohol!

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Mon 12/22/08 05:50 PM



can i change the question a little bit?
(Lee)


what if the person is in recovery and is happy and doing the right thing? would u date a recovering alcoholic?:smile:
bigsmile yesbigsmile


..and if the recovering alcoholic/addict is doing the right thing, chances of relaspe r second to none

:thumbsup:

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Mon 12/22/08 05:51 PM


....I don't want to date someone with addictions other than sex

Be careful what you wish for. Google it. Its NOT what you think.
kinda jokin:tongue:

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:51 PM
Married and divorced 2 of them NO THANK YOU

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Mon 12/22/08 05:52 PM


An active alcoholic? Someone with no desire to change?

No, I wouldn't. Why?

Do I want to lose all I have worked for? No.

Do I want to lose my friends and family? No.

Lose my health? No.

Do I want to lose my job and good name? No.

Do I want to worry about the stupid mistakes they'd make....
infidelity....risk disease....end up in jail....in fights
....car accidents....breaking the law? No.

Would they set a good example for the tender hearted and impressionable? No.

Do I want to spend countless nights and maybe days alone....while they nurse their "best friend and mistress"? No.

Do I want to watch them get sick, whither away, and die? No.

Do I want to nurse an invalid who knew better than that? No.

Would I want to deal with all the lies and deceit? No.

Do I deserve better? YES!!!!



sounds like a voice of experience..

:wink: flowerforyou

bad_girl's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:52 PM
No, lived with one, never again

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:53 PM
no.was married to one and it sucked rocks.

alonenotlonely's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:53 PM



....I don't want to date someone with addictions other than sex

Be careful what you wish for. Google it. Its NOT what you think.
kinda jokin:tongue:


Yeah, I kinda figgered that, but it would appear you hit a nerve with someone.

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Mon 12/22/08 05:54 PM



An active alcoholic? Someone with no desire to change?

No, I wouldn't. Why?

Do I want to lose all I have worked for? No.

Do I want to lose my friends and family? No.

Lose my health? No.

Do I want to lose my job and good name? No.

Do I want to worry about the stupid mistakes they'd make....
infidelity....risk disease....end up in jail....in fights
....car accidents....breaking the law? No.

Would they set a good example for the tender hearted and impressionable? No.

Do I want to spend countless nights and maybe days alone....while they nurse their "best friend and mistress"? No.

Do I want to watch them get sick, whither away, and die? No.

Do I want to nurse an invalid who knew better than that? No.

Would I want to deal with all the lies and deceit? No.

Do I deserve better? YES!!!!



sounds like a voice of experience..

:wink: flowerforyou

uh huh..flowers

buttons's photo
Mon 12/22/08 05:55 PM


....I don't want to date someone with addictions other than sex

Be careful what you wish for. Google it. Its NOT what you think.
sex addicts are cheaters no matter how much sex they are getting with the person they are with..... a lot of people dont understand what that really means... like angel said google it