Topic: Do you let others know when they have disappointed you?
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:30 PM
:smile: Do you let others know when they have disappointed you?:smile:

imsingle951's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:31 PM
Yes. I get very silent

no photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:32 PM
They can usually tell if they've disappointed me.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:34 PM
your all worthless and weak...no we aint gonna take it-twisted sister

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:43 PM

your all worthless and weak...no we aint gonna take it-twisted sister
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MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:43 PM

Yes. I get very silent
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njmom05's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:44 PM

They can usually tell if they've disappointed me.

Yep, same with me. I get quiet and also get very short with them. But lately, I have learned to just spill my guts and tell them what's bugging me or what they did to disappoint me.

fntsy6569's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:44 PM
Yes, but it will usually be at a later time so when I do bring it up I won't be over ran by emotions.

squonk's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:46 PM
I don't think we should hold people to our expectations unless they want us to. Still if someone was to truly disappointment me it would be going against what they have told me that they value in life like for example stealing, lying, cheating etc.

Jess642's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:46 PM

:smile: Do you let others know when they have disappointed you?:smile:


nope....no expectations... no disappointments.

:wink: flowerforyou

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 12/21/08 01:51 PM
Depends on a lot of factor's What the disappointment was first. Who they are and what meaning they have in my life.
If it is someone that doesn't mean a whole lot then I don't bother.

If it is someone close to me then I might say something I think I would like to know the Why of it more than anything else.

Bottom line to me is everyone disappoints someone sometime in their relatioinship. It is up to us how we handle it. I know I have disappointed a few myself.