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Topic: how would you recover from a break up???
livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Sun 12/21/08 12:11 PM
How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is? going through it now. exercise helps and spending time with friends. yes it does..get over it soon dude..coz next one is waiting I tend to move on quickly. No sense in sitting on a pitty pot being depressed.

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Sun 12/21/08 12:20 PM
women deal better... right or wrong?

hopefulhoffman Joined Tue 03/27/07 Posts: 123	Sun 12/21/08 12:23 PM
i would have to say it depends on the amount of time involved in the relationship.and the feelins left behind.for those who say go to bed with someone else.all i can say it must be hard to hide your emotions all the time.bet you go through alot of relationships.???i say take a week or month at the most evaluate what didnt work and what you missed so the next time you put your self out there you make beter chioces.each relationship is an experience that teaches us more about our selfs and what we are prone to except as exceptable.but if you linger in the past then the past is all youll keep living.myself.i just keep moving foward.if it didnt work i look at what i learned from it.and try to stay friends with that person.friendship should not ever be ruined by sex.

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Sun 12/21/08 12:23 PM
It'a never easy... no matter whose FAULT it is.........

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Sun 12/21/08 12:25 PM
i would have to say it depends on the amount of time involved in the relationship.and the feelins left behind.for those who say go to bed with someone else.all i can say it must be hard to hide your emotions all the time.bet you go through alot of relationships.???i say take a week or month at the most evaluate what didnt work and what you missed so the next time you put your self out there you make beter chioces.each relationship is an experience that teaches us more about our selfs and what we are prone to except as exceptable.but if you linger in the past then the past is all youll keep living.myself.i just keep moving foward.if it didnt work i look at what i learned from it.and try to stay friends with that person.friendship should not ever be ruined by sex. agree

njmom05 Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 5867	Sun 12/21/08 12:25 PM
How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is? Its never easy to recover from a break up. I learned from my last one to just take some time for me, let my heart heal and focus on family, friends and work.

Filmfreek Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2541	Sun 12/21/08 12:29 PM
How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is? Easy. masturbate.

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Sun 12/21/08 12:31 PM
How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is? Easy. masturbate. and how would you recover from that???

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Sun 12/21/08 12:51 PM
It'a never easy... no matter whose FAULT it is......... yes...but what all you do to deal with it??

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 12/23/08 06:13 PM
With a little help from my friends. Talking, writing, processing, crying, venting, raging, reading, resting, remembering, having gratitude, relying on my spirituality, and trying my best to move on when the time is right. You can't rush it, especially if you have a history of trauma and many severe losses. If it tends to last more than 6-12 months, you might want to consider counseling, whether that is individually or through group.