What do u guys do wen life seems to deal u the short end of the stick.

i look at what worse may have happened if it did not


and try to learn from it so it does not happen again

Go find something that cheers you up

I watch pain compilation videos because I'm glad no one filmed me when crap like that happens

been livin it for the better part of 6 months..
i grin and bear it.. and try to reassure myself that eventualy it HAS t o get better!!
it just HAS to!

hope ya improve cause it sucks

been living it for 8 1/2 years


so may much good come to you and yours

I look at the problem straight on, and try to remedy it. I dont feel sorry for myself or cry about it. What good does that do??? What's the problem exactly?

im sorry sweets..

may you get all that you deserve after so much dificulty for so long

the problem is how you let the circumstances control you

rather than responding to the circumstances in a positive manner

****generalization not aimed at anyone

####except maybe myself

it seems like i pick the wrong friends..in the past two months ive lost three close friends..i don no how to deal with losin all this at once...i miss them so much, but ill never see them again

well i used to drive for a living

so if this would not have happened

i amy have been killed (or worse yet killed someone else) in a collision

and i would much rather be going through this than take an innocent life even if it is by chance and no control of my own

***key word is innocent

sorry for your loss

btu try to remember the good

and ponder some of the bad

and be thankful yer still here

you are need by someone sometime (in the future if not now)
even if you do not realize it

everything happens for a reason

again

sorry for your loss

i got myself and my children out of a REALY bad situation.. that i had put us in for to long.. i think it was the gun he held to my head and pulled the trigger on ( thank the lord it misfired) or the knife that he used to try to cut out my child from my stomach (that was concieved by him raping me)
just to have everything go even more wrong in a long chain of events in the last 2 years.. the last 6 months have been particularly bad after losing my job and trying to raise 4 children alone with a 7 hour a week minimum wage job as the only incomei can find.. legaly..

**shrug**
it will get better..

it HAS to get better..

lost how????

thank you, i have a funeral tomoro, i will go in respect, but how do you put things like this behind you wen u r always reminded of it

they passed

I lost 4 people last February and another in the Fall. It is painful. It hurts. We grieve. It does get easier - much easier.

you just continue

sorry but i doubt you will ever put it behind you

but it will get to the point as time goes by that the thoughts of this will be further apart and easier to handle

but i still think of friends i lost 30 years ago

it does get easier

but forgotten (i doubt it)

be strong it will get easier with time

Well....I dont think you have the short end of the stick. Youre alive...and thats a good thing. Ive lost alot of friends through death as well....I usually remember them when Im listening to music. Certain songs.....brings back memories. Good memories of us laughing or singing or just hanging out.

You need to grieve......but also realize that life is full of "unexpected" traumas and that you have to deal with them head on.

thanks ima stop talkin bout it now but thanks for ur words for real it means alot to me

You be thankful for the time that you had with them, and be thankful that they're in a much better place... they feel no pain, no sadness, no anger....