Sometimes wonder. I loved my parents I loved my dog. yet 100% love for a women is rare in the crazy greedy paranoid days we now live in. Plus I have seen love turn into hate and get very ugly. How does that work?. LOVE is forever right?. I think that people need and want love to much. Plus get confuse with respect for one and another and great lovemaking for LOVE itself. I have broken a few hearts becuase of this one reason. respect and good sex. Yet never had mine ripped out yet. Is it better to have LOVED AND LOST Or to have NEVER LOVED AT ALL? I think never loved at all. I have met too too many many women who are scorne with broken hearts and trust issues who refuse to open there hearts again because of the past. Yet i still will never give up hope on finding my lifepartner. LOVE? how bout U like and respect my thoughts ALOT. I can live with that. ::signhelp::::signhelp:: D.W [e8]

youre a teacher????

is love 4 suckers?? mmm good question,but i don't think so better live loving somebody who dying without love

those who love most loses


sometimes losing is not so bad

I think that real and true love evolves.

that's right but it depends of your age

again I say

love is not something you have or hold

it's something you do

as long as you love someone conditionally and expect something in return then yes it is for suckers.

If you can love someone without expectation that they do something in return for being loved then its not

i concur

but it takes two to evolve compatibility love

but if you truly love some one

that love will always be there no matter what they do

and no matter how much you try to bury it
(it is better to realize this)

and learn to understand if you can not love yourself enough to overcome your love for another that has left you then you are doomed to a life of misery

anytime you let another dictate your feelings you are giving up a piece of you very being (this is a good thing till you are given a reason for it not to be)

[is it easy no -- but is anything worth having/doing easy]

I LOVE TO SUCK!!

Oops...

thats not what you meant...huh? heehee.

i was going to work something like that in but just couldn't figure out how

splain ricky splain

what does age have to do with it

Roberta you are just geat! A breath of fresh air!

Nee ner nee ner.......nee neeeee...

IIIIII beat you!!!

better to have LOVED AND LOST Or to have NEVER LOVED AT ALL?


I'm with that famous saying. Without having loved and been loved I don't think my memories of good times would be so good. Yep like the rest I have lost but, I like to hold on to when it was good and remember and smile.

beat it just beat

come on and eat it

I would rather not ever loved and not ever gone thru the pain.

Dayummmmmmmmmmmm......

sooooo good.......

and yet......


soooooooooo far!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I learned the truth at seventeen
That love was meant for beauty queens
And high school girls with clear skinned smiles
Who married young and then retired
The valentines I never knew
The Friday night charades of youth
Were spent on one more beautiful
At seventeen I learned the truth


And those of us with ravaged faces
Lacking in the social graces
Desperately remained at home
Inventing lovers on the phone
Who called to say, "come dance with me"
And murmur vague obscenities
It isn't all it seems at seventeen


A brown eyed girl in hand-me-downs
Whose name I never could pronounce said
Pity, please, the ones who serve
They only get what they deserve
The rich-relationed home-town queen
Marries into what she needs
With a guarantee of company and haven for the elderly

Remember those who win the game
Lose the love they sought to gain
In debentures of quality
And dubious integrity
Their small town eyes will gape at you in
Dull surprise when payment due
Exceeds accounts received at seventeen

To those of us who knew the pain
Of valentines that never came
And those whose names were never called
When choosing sides for basketball
It was long ago and far away
The world was younger than today
And dreams were all they gave for free
To ugly duckling girls like me

We all play the game and when we dare
To cheat ourselves at solitaire
Inventing lovers on the phone
Repenting other lives unknown
That call and say, "come dance with me"
And murmur vague obscenities
At ugly girls like me, at seventeen

Janis Ian

Mm I've loved and lost before but never been married, nor have I experienced kids so that's a chapter of my life that is still yet untouched.

However, it's our experiences and our memories that define us. I wouldn't be who I am without the experiences I've had in the past. I would rather love and be loved by someone than have never experienced it at all. Because nothing can match the feelings that are invoked when you look into the eyes of the person you've given your heart to.

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Nice POST!