Topic: Would you forgive him?
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:00 PM
flowerforyouWhat would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?flowerforyou

flowerforyouWould you forgive him, and could you ever love that child?flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:01 PM
For the last time Lee.......

I am not GAY!!!

bohemianbugeater's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:02 PM
i am one of those children. my father got my mother pregnant long before he met my step mom....who is my best friend.

redhead44613's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:03 PM
If he had the kid before we met thats fine but while we were married deff not! thats cheating sorry your ass will be kicked to the curb:angry:

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:04 PM

flowerforyouWhat would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?flowerforyou

flowerforyouWould you forgive him, and could you ever love that child?flowerforyou


Clarify Mirrorflowerforyou

Did this happen while they were together?


As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:06 PM

For the last time Lee.......

I am not GAY!!!
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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:06 PM


flowerforyouWhat would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?flowerforyou

flowerforyouWould you forgive him, and could you ever love that child?flowerforyou


Clarify Mirrorflowerforyou

Did this happen while they were together?


As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened.
flowerforyou I am assuming that it happened during an affairflowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:12 PM



flowerforyouWhat would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?flowerforyou

flowerforyouWould you forgive him, and could you ever love that child?flowerforyou


Clarify Mirrorflowerforyou

Did this happen while they were together?


As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened.
flowerforyou I am assuming that it happened during an affairflowerforyou


Well what I said applies, if you choose to stay with him after it happens, you need to encourage him by any means necessary to be a good father to the child. It will be hard and complicated but it is not the child's fault.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:13 PM




flowerforyouWhat would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?flowerforyou

flowerforyouWould you forgive him, and could you ever love that child?flowerforyou


Clarify Mirrorflowerforyou

Did this happen while they were together?


As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened.
flowerforyou I am assuming that it happened during an affairflowerforyou


Well what I said applies, if you choose to stay with him after it happens, you need to encourage him by any means necessary to be a good father to the child. It will be hard and complicated but it is not the child's fault.
flowerforyou Thats very wisebigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:14 PM

If he had the kid before we met thats fine but while we were married deff not! thats cheating sorry your ass will be kicked to the curb:angry:
flowerforyou

bohemianbugeater's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:30 PM





flowerforyouWhat would you do if your husband got another woman pregnant?flowerforyou

flowerforyouWould you forgive him, and could you ever love that child?flowerforyou


Clarify Mirrorflowerforyou

Did this happen while they were together?


As for the love of the child, children are never at fault for the failures of the adults around them so loving the child should come completely without prejudice. Of course this would only apply if one chose to stay together after it happened.
flowerforyou I am assuming that it happened during an affairflowerforyou


Well what I said applies, if you choose to stay with him after it happens, you need to encourage him by any means necessary to be a good father to the child. It will be hard and complicated but it is not the child's fault.
flowerforyou Thats very wisebigsmile


i completely agree....plus while i do think cheating is a major offense in a relationship i also think there are exceptions to every rule.


which off in another tangent...maybe its a screwed up version of a surrogacy...

bohemianbugeater's photo
Fri 12/19/08 12:32 PM
people always need to remember that no matter what an adult should be held responsible for inside or outside of a relationship...the child shouldnt. too many children are victims of their parents indiscretions or unwavering closemindedness or hurt feelings.

no photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:33 PM
It would be much easier for me to love the child than to forgive the cheating spouse.