I was contacted by someone I dated, and once cared a lot about last night. He kind of dumped me by just losing contact, not calling or anything. Like he jumped off the side of a cliff. Anyhow, he told me how he missed me, how he always screws up a good thing when he has it, wanted my forgiveness, etc.

I'm kind of not sure of his intentions? Does anyone have a clue as to what he may be up to?

Wanting to get back together with me?

depends what this guy was like before he "jumped off the cliff" really. the things is... eyes wide open....is this someone who makes you happy NOW....then you ask yourself what you want to do about it depending on your answer

my advice is NEVER date someone you have already dated!! Just doesn't work!
but if you do just be careful

He was great! We got along so well, had so much fun. Thats why when he quit calling, it left me scratching my head. I still don't know why.

Thank you.

luckily hurricane ike was a good enough excuse for me to leave my last ex....which after months of no call no show resurfaced for a few days of manipulation attempts...when he didnt get what he wanted he went back into hiding....this is just my experience in my life however...

another one was a guy who pulled a similar stunt...he and i ended up in happy go lucky land and were getting married up until the day i got a phone call that he was killed while visiting his dad back in egypt.

that is not the way to treat a fellow human being without a very good excuse...
have you asked him why he would do that?

welcome to the forums...

I'm suppose to hear it tomorrow. But I'm trying to figure out if I really wanna know. I mean I do just out of curiosity I guess.

That doesn't sound good. If you're unsure about his intentions, stay away to be safe. JMO

Hellkitten he got dumped. It dropped fate in your hands by accidental meeting. How you handle it is your choice. Oh and change your age range to 43 so I can email you.

lol you sound like me. and that youve moved on. what are you going to tell him tomorrow....and why does he need a night to brainstorm an excuse?

The old "I always screw up a good thing when I have it" excuse eh? This is just basically him saying, "I am a total douche for ever just leaving the way I did, and if you give me a chance, I will do it again." This kind of guy just can't accept being happy and can't accept that a woman would/could fall for him. He always runs.

my sentiments for the most part goofball....

most people are bound to repeat the same actions over and over just in different scenarios

That makes sense that he got dumped and is now back for you..

maybe his intentions aren't good...

Thanks ya'll. It's what I really felt, guess I needed to hear someone else say it. I still wanna hear why he did what he did, guess for some closure. And LHB, I changed my settings darlin.

That's normal to want though HK. I mean, it sucks when they leave and you don't know why. You wonder if you did something wrong, or said something that triggered him to leaving.

But I am guessing he will tell you that it was just him getting scared, and that it wasn't you...."It was me". I'm a guy, and as much as I hate to say this, some of us do "run" from being happy. Weird huh? We find a woman that makes us happy, and we just can't accept it. Figure that one out!

Yeah he told me the other night that I didn't do anything wrong, that I did everything right.

And goof, don't think I will ever figure ya'll out. But I still love ya'll the same.

don't think I will ever figure ya'll out. But I still love ya'll the same.

Ditto

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