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Topic: WHY AIM I SO INSECURE
notquite00's photo
Fri 12/19/08 01:00 AM

i am very insecure about myself also because of my weight..makes you feel not wanted by a guy


Why don't you lose the weight then? Not only will more guys want you, not only will you feel better about yourself, but you'll be healthier as well. You'll save a lot of money on hospital bills down the road as well.

Why don't you run or jump rope? Walking doesn't count. ;-)

liltazz's photo
Fri 12/19/08 03:12 AM
Edited by liltazz on Fri 12/19/08 03:13 AM


Why don't you lose the weight then? Not only will more guys want you, not only will you feel better about yourself, but you'll be healthier as well. You'll save a lot of money on hospital bills down the road as well.

Why don't you run or jump rope? Walking doesn't count. ;-)


WOW!!!! Why is it you think if someone loses weight they will find someone? There are people out there that are not that shallow. By the way, walking does count.

imsingle951's photo
Fri 12/19/08 04:41 AM

ABOUT MY SELF?? AIM EASY GOING AND EVERYONE SAYS AIM FUN TO BE AROUND. AIM JUST DOWN ON MYSELF WHY?
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rlynne's photo
Fri 12/19/08 05:52 AM



Why don't you lose the weight then? Not only will more guys want you, not only will you feel better about yourself, but you'll be healthier as well. You'll save a lot of money on hospital bills down the road as well.

Why don't you run or jump rope? Walking doesn't count. ;-)


WOW!!!! Why is it you think if someone loses weight they will find someone? There are people out there that are not that shallow. By the way, walking does count.

walking does count, yay, its an easier way to adapt to a more healthy life stile and weight should be more of a concern with health than with finding some one, but i think he had some valid points....when you feel good about yourself you have more confidence and therefore attract more people....if you have a problem with your weight, it will make you happier to do something about it and bonus you get healthier mentally as well as physically

txmomof2's photo
Fri 12/19/08 05:55 AM
I don't know why you are? But maybe when you find out you'll let me know then maybe I'll have a clue as to why I am.

bry11calcool's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:43 AM
It's because you a** tat is showing. Turn and look . . . no keep turning. Just Kiddin . . . LOL

Guess what . . . you are normal. Me too. I get depressed, sensitive, insecure . . .

So I follow simple rules:

1) Thank God each morning I am alive
2) Be gratefule for the things I do have and don't worry or envy over what I don't
3) Go to bed thankful for the good things I have done

You're gonna be fine.

But what the heck do I know?

Bry

Rishiku's photo
Fri 12/19/08 02:46 PM

i read through every reply on here and not one person stopped to say "i have no idea. i'm not a doctor."

strange how that works.

how should we know whats going on in your mental health? i mean do you mean naturally insecure? because thats everyone. or like serverely insecure to the point of pushing people away? i mean shouldn't you be asking a health care professional this?

just sayin...


I know for one when I was in the psychiatrics ward thats what they explained to us, I am taking the information I KNOW and am passing it on. Being negative about things is never the cure, you always have to try and look on the bright side. It is hard but you have to be just like a train and keep on chuggin through!

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