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Please be cool.
I am struggling with this. I haven't had 1! one woman that wonts to just to talk to me. I know i am not that dam bad. I am really frustrated that i haven't found one woman to just speak to. Just my thoughts right now. I feel like i will be alone the rest of my life. No relief in sight. |
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get into the conversations here, and that should improve for you.
 you're in the right place, just jump in like you're doing here.
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i have followed yall's suggestions....still nothing...they are missing out
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 12/17/08 08:24 PM
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look at the quotes that interest you, and add to the conversation, for this is what i do. or just pull some silly sh!T out of mid-air. sometimes it takes a while
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just tired of allthe bull s___T
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Just try and take it easy on yourself. Give it some time. They say ( I dont know who they really are LOL ) dont try so hard. Just let the ladies get to know you in the forums is the best suggestion. Good luck.
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just tired of allthe bull s___T That attitude, in particular, is going to come through in a lot of your posts. To get most women to pay attention, you have to be positive. It also helps if you have something interesting to say. |
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true true...but thats what i have been trying to do, at the min. just to see me and maybe a f2f meeting.....
its just a real long time since i had a girl wonting me. Plus now i am finding out that i am going to be alone for XMas.... |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 12/17/08 08:34 PM
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you're talking to us now, so just follow through with keeping it light and positive on other posts. it takes time, it really does. i had three times the number of posts that you have before i could talk with a flow.
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I know being alone for Christmas is tough. But remember you now are a part of the mingle family. We are always here, or some of us are. LOL Just join in on the virtual fun.
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see my X is going to have our two kids even though she is Jewish and doesn't do xmas. She is trying to jack with me and i am pissed about that too.
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I am sure you knew about her beliefs before when you were with her. And the kids will be with you around the holidays at one point. Remember, if you celebrate Christmas, its about the spirit of the season. And that can be celebrated the day before or after or ever all year long. Do something special for your kids when you can. Dont let her actions controll who you are. Let it go. Its hard but you can do it.
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 12/17/08 08:45 PM
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time to put that out of your mind here, and use this as your escape from that, and if you look at it that way, it can be very healthy,.......the bull poo doesn't cross this line.......get what i'm saying that way, you also have a safe harbor.
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Do a search on here for women that are 7 years younger and 7 years older (or 10 years if you want) than you. Then go thru and message them. Just introduce yourself and tell them a little bit about yourself. If you get a reply from one of them, keep it going from there. There are other dating sites that you can also join, though there is a fee. I made new friends (friends only) on match dot com. GOOD LUCK
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