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Topic: Help needed advice severely desired
Akinyahalo's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:06 PM
Okay heres my dilemma. My ex broke with me a few weeks back but is now coming to me saying she thinks she is pregnant. While we were together we of course slept together on multiple occasions and were faithful to each other so now i have no idea what to do. Help Please

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:09 PM
Save your money...going to need it in about 9 months.

catwoman96's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:12 PM
buy her a pregnancy test and go have her pee on the little strip

whatssuup's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:12 PM


First make sure she is pregnant

then make sure that It's yours

Akinyahalo's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:13 PM

buy her a pregnancy test and go have her pee on the little strip
did that but her family always comes up neg.

catwoman96's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:15 PM


buy her a pregnancy test and go have her pee on the little strip
did that but her family always comes up neg.


hmmmmm Ive never heard of that before....perhaps its a ploy to get your attention???? If she was seriously concerned..wouldnt she go to her OB/GYN for a blood draw then....

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:15 PM


buy her a pregnancy test and go have her pee on the little strip
did that but her family always comes up neg.


Doctor visit can fix that.

Akinyahalo's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:16 PM
she would if she had the money or insurance

buttons's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:17 PM
the doctor will write up a paper with the test results..... so she can give it to you.. till then tell her to do that and dont worry about it...

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:19 PM
No money or insurance isn't an excuse most cities or counties have a pregnancy crisis center where they will give free pregnancy tests or low costs based off income or Public health clinics same deal

Moondark's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:20 PM
It if is a money issue, there are clinics she can go to for that. If she won't go, I would worry about it being a ploy for attention.

catwoman96's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:20 PM

she would if she had the money or insurance


planned parenthood..everythign is cheap there and some places give free pregnancy tests...or try the Er and go and say shes having stomach cramps and she thinks shes pregnant and the whole sitaution about not being able to pee on a strip...they'll run the blood levels I bet.

Akinyahalo's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:22 PM

No money or insurance isn't an excuse most cities or counties have a pregnancy crisis center where they will give free pregnancy tests or low costs based off income or Public health clinics same deal
hmm didn't know that will have to check it out but there is still the question of whether or not we should get back together if she is

Akinyahalo's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:23 PM

It if is a money issue, there are clinics she can go to for that. If she won't go, I would worry about it being a ploy for attention.
y would she want attention shes the one who said she needed her space

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:26 PM


No money or insurance isn't an excuse most cities or counties have a pregnancy crisis center where they will give free pregnancy tests or low costs based off income or Public health clinics same deal
hmm didn't know that will have to check it out but there is still the question of whether or not we should get back together if she is


Don't get back together if you don't want too, getting back with someone just because of a child is more damning on the child than it is on the relationship.

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:27 PM
If the pregnancy wasn't a concern would you want to get back together with her?


A baby isn't a reason to try and salvage a romantic relationship



Akinyahalo's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:28 PM



No money or insurance isn't an excuse most cities or counties have a pregnancy crisis center where they will give free pregnancy tests or low costs based off income or Public health clinics same deal
hmm didn't know that will have to check it out but there is still the question of whether or not we should get back together if she is


Don't get back together if you don't want too, getting back with someone just because of a child is more damning on the child than it is on the relationship.
well i still love her that was more for her

no photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:31 PM
D.N.A test it happend to me. we brok up and I beleav even to this day she was fathful. But the thing is it didnt take her long to be with someone els and get pregant by him

no photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:36 PM
IF she is pregnant and IF it is yours you can still be a dad without getting back into a relationship if you don't want to. On the other hand depending on how recently all of this happened maybe it was just her hormones talking.
Good luck with this one.

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 12/17/08 03:44 PM
Yeah I have some advice, use a condom and you won't have to worry about pregnancy scares.

whoa

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