Community > Dating & Relationships

Topic: is their such a thing
catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 07:57 PM
no i mean, if we are all the same where is there a spark. perfect doesnt necessarily mean the same thing. too people cant be exactly the same. perfect means enough similiarities/differences....perfect not in a material sense but in a just perfect sense. understanding, compassionate, caring, romanitc, tough, funny, sexy....perfect ya know?? I still think we deed ehough differences to make frickion sometimes, to get the sparks to fly if u understand me. I know what your saying...but i mean perfect...meaning their is also a whole lotta chemistry. yanno...perfect...what ive been looking for perfect. we have argued before though. once or twice. i dont mean overly perfect. just perfect.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 07:59 PM
im just wondering when the other shoe is gonna fall...thats all...and how bad it will hurt It will hurt alot but you shouldn't look for the other shoe to fall eather. Enjoy it while you have it and roll with what ever may come. I know this sounds odd coming from me but things happen sometimes that change even me. I agree with this way of looking at thigns... I just...Ive never thought i would actually bump into perfect. thank you though...its just a shoe..gotta take a chance sometime I guess

Drifters13 Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 1769	Tue 12/16/08 08:01 PM
im just wondering when the other shoe is gonna fall...thats all...and how bad it will hurt It will hurt alot but you shouldn't look for the other shoe to fall eather. Enjoy it while you have it and roll with what ever may come. I know this sounds odd coming from me but things happen sometimes that change even me. I agree with this way of looking at thigns... I just...Ive never thought i would actually bump into perfect. thank you though...its just a shoe..gotta take a chance sometime I guess Exactly. Good Luck

tusselboy Joined Sat 10/18/08 Posts: 274	Tue 12/16/08 08:01 PM
I don't think u will ever find that out, untill u choice to love someone, not just lust after them.Oh I'm not talking jumping into bed on the first date, get to realy know the person first. Than maybe u can answer that one.

Drifters13 Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 1769	Tue 12/16/08 08:04 PM
I don't think u will ever find that out, untill u choice to love someone, not just lust after them.Oh I'm not talking jumping into bed on the first date, get to realy know the person first. Than maybe u can answer that one. Sometimes the greatest love begins with lust. Who are you to discurage how someone finds love? What works for you most likely won't work for anyone else. think before you speak.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 08:05 PM
I don't think u will ever find that out, untill u choice to love someone, not just lust after them.Oh I'm not talking jumping into bed on the first date, get to realy know the person first. Than maybe u can answer that one. .....and if you assume that I havent taken my sweet time...then you just might be wrong. again...perfect...

tusselboy Joined Sat 10/18/08 Posts: 274	Tue 12/16/08 08:07 PM
I don't think u will ever find that out, untill u choice to love someone, not just lust after them.Oh I'm not talking jumping into bed on the first date, get to realy know the person first. Than maybe u can answer that one. .....and if you assume that I havent taken my sweet time...then you just might be wrong. again...perfect... but u see that is what makes a great relationship, time not sex.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 08:30 PM
I don't think u will ever find that out, untill u choice to love someone, not just lust after them.Oh I'm not talking jumping into bed on the first date, get to realy know the person first. Than maybe u can answer that one. .....and if you assume that I havent taken my sweet time...then you just might be wrong. again...perfect... but u see that is what makes a great relationship, time not sex. sex matters also...very much so...

tusselboy Joined Sat 10/18/08 Posts: 274	Tue 12/16/08 08:34 PM
than I hate to say this, but u are looking for lust not LOVE.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 08:47 PM
than I hate to say this, but u are looking for lust not LOVE. nope not at all....but i dont need to explain myself to you.... love and lust DOOOO go together..love does require lust. man/woman love anyhow...

tusselboy Joined Sat 10/18/08 Posts: 274	Tue 12/16/08 09:25 PM
than I hate to say this, but u are looking for lust not LOVE. nope not at all....but i dont need to explain myself to you.... love and lust DOOOO go together..love does require lust. man/woman love anyhow... U miss it again, love is a choice not a feeling like lust, I truly feel sorry for you.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 12/16/08 09:26 PM
as tooo perfect when you are looking for a significant other?? What do you mean?

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 09:34 PM
than I hate to say this, but u are looking for lust not LOVE. nope not at all....but i dont need to explain myself to you.... love and lust DOOOO go together..love does require lust. man/woman love anyhow... U miss it again, love is a choice not a feeling like lust, I truly feel sorry for you. i truly feel sorry for you...that you've never felt such a wholy complete perfect feeling like this. just fyi...i talked to this guy 4 months before meeting him...its not about just sex...AT ALL..although the sex..making live is just perfect and very aggressive and gentle at proper moments..good luck to ya dude. I hope you find soemkthing remotly close to what I have someday... love is not a choice..its something that jsut finds you.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 09:35 PM Edited by catwoman96 on Tue 12/16/08 09:36 PM
as tooo perfect when you are looking for a significant other?? What do you mean? have you ever met someone that is exaclty in everyway what you are seeking?? your dream come true

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 12/16/08 09:38 PM
as tooo perfect when you are looking for a significant other?? What do you mean? have you ever met someone that is exaclty in everyway what you are seeking?? your dream come true No, but I have some come pretty close.

tusselboy Joined Sat 10/18/08 Posts: 274	Tue 12/16/08 09:40 PM
than I hate to say this, but u are looking for lust not LOVE. nope not at all....but i dont need to explain myself to you.... love and lust DOOOO go together..love does require lust. man/woman love anyhow... U miss it again, love is a choice not a feeling like lust, I truly feel sorry for you. i truly feel sorry for you...that you've never felt such a wholy complete perfect feeling like this. just fyi...i talked to this guy 4 months before meeting him...its not about just sex...AT ALL..although the sex..making live is just perfect and very aggressive and gentle at proper moments..good luck to ya dude. I hope you find soemkthing remotly close to what I have someday... love is not a choice..its something that jsut finds you. question than, if love finds u, why aren't u in love? U have been around the block by the sounds of it.choice to love someone and u will be the better. I haven't found the one I choice to love, choice is more than feeling, feeling fads,choice continues till the end of time!!!!!!!

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Tue 12/16/08 10:36 PM
I believe that there can be someone that is perfect for us. That is all we need.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Wed 12/17/08 10:34 AM


squonk Joined Thu 12/11/08 Posts: 390	Wed 12/17/08 10:52 AM
I think our minds tend to create the too perfect image and we try too hard to complete that image dismissing all of the pluses and focusing too much attention on the negatives.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Wed 12/17/08 12:03 PM
everybody has positives and negatives. but a perfect feeling about another person, not noticing negative things...jsut thinking about how wonderful they are. this is an amazing feeling. Nobody can be PERFECT...but there is a perfect fit for me. and wowww....automagical.