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I wouldn't bring a gift on a first meeting, but it is thoughtful. If you really feel like you want to then bring one, see how things go, and then offer it WHEN/IF it seems appropriate. Good luck, man.
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WTH?>????? I WANT GIFTS!!!
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oh boy.. so basically it's no gifts since its the first date... plenty of time later 'if you hit it off' 'hope for a second date'???? How about getting the girl some flowers.. being sweet.... Dont' you think that would up the chances of getting a second date? For me it absolutely would.. It won't up the chances for a second date. You'll get the second date by being compatible, not by trying to bribe her with a gift. Bring the flowers on the second date if you like her! Bringing gifts on the first date makes you look like a desperate tool! He's right..desperate tool.. 
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Alas it was not to be today.
She emailed and said her dog was sick and that she had taken him to the vet and wanted to stay home with him but offered to meet me next weekend. Unfortunately I think it will be after New Year's before we actually meet. On a side note I did not get a gift. I almost bought a small Christmas ornament but refrained at the last minute. |
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Well goodluck if you do ever get to meet.
Atleast you would've gotten a gift with thought man. Anything in my opinion is better than flowers. Hah. I once brought a girl a blowpop boy did she tease the living **** out of me with it :). |
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if ya happen to get lucky.....
just dont give any gifts...... that keep giving....... ooooooooooo..........  that was in such poor taste..... but........
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simple flowers of carnations maybe... white one for peace, yellow for friendship, and maybe a pink one for a hopeful beginning
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Here's the thing about gifts... The object of the gift or the intention of the gift is to get a reaction from the girl and leave a memory inside of them that will last a lifetime.
A flower isn't going to do this. Sure maybe in your mind it will but the flower wilts and fades away. I'm not saying it couldn't bring a smile to the girls face but I'd say if you approached 20 women with flower *unless it's a 4 yr old kid doing it* :) it's not going to truly make them smile but rather seem maybe creeped out? It's also monotonous. You really need to seperate yourself from the rest of the elligible bachelors in the world. Flower=probably most common thing ever... I don't know where chocolate fits in but if anyone gave a girl candy hearts for valentine's day again it's just too common. The christmas ornament was a good idea. Flower boy goes huh? Christmas ornament would remind eachother every christmas that they ever spend together from now on this was our first year, do you remember, etc. Then again of course if the date didn't go well she would probably have fun breaking it... |
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A gift on the first date seems a bit too much. There will probably be a bit of awkwardness... regardless of the gift. Then she has to figure out what she is going to do with it while you are actually on the date itself. The best thing on the first date is to bring yourself with a warm pleasant smile and attitude. Those attributes are a gift in themselves.
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A gift on the first date seems a bit too much. There will probably be a bit of awkwardness... regardless of the gift. Then she has to figure out what she is going to do with it while you are actually on the date itself. The best thing on the first date is to bring yourself with a warm pleasant smile and attitude. Those attributes are a gift in themselves. Who the hell said you whip the gift out in the beginning only flowers are suitable for this because they need to be left behind. Sometimes I bring a gift, hide it and they won't get it till the next day cuz they don't know where it is. They always find it the next day though. |
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A turd wrapped in tin foil for me darkowl? You shouldn't have! That's so sweet. Here's my gift to you- a sweaty old harley T shirt from d!ck farmers HD! Ha ha ha! OMG! I've got an old Harley T from Prick Farmers, too! Wow! That brought up memories! Still has the blood stains & everything! |
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